To be dating or living with someone, even for a short while, once the feelings are there, the pain will surely follow after a breakup. If we are unfortunate enough to be faced with that with a long time partner, then it is even more complicated from an emotional standpoint - what will befall us now, a separation, perhaps even a divorce, all questions flying through our heads, and we quiver with emotional stress and fear at the very thought.

All I could think at the time was, what will I do if we break up? What happens now? And if there are children involved, then it is even worse, doesn't bear thinking about does it.

Then what are we to do, I know how it feels I have been there, and although I am one of the lucky ones, not only did I make it through the hell, but I managed to repair the relationship, and I managed to get back the love of my life, and we are still together, but not without significant effort on my part.

Just for clarity, my boyfriend and I had lived together for 7 years, and we were planning to marry, not concrete plans, but we were talking about it. One day he came back from work to tell me that he was leaving me for another woman. I do not lie, at that moment I could only wish that the ground would open and swallow me, my head was spinning, I was sick in my stomach, and I didn't know what to do, what would I do, how would I cope and all the time that I was thinking about this break up, that dreaded feeling of loneliness and abandonment.

I hadn't even noticed that by now he was upstairs packing his clothes, only when he walked past me and said I will be in touch, did it really start to sink in.

And so, like every other human being in the same circumstances, I suddenly could not control my emotions, I ran screaming into the hallway, please don't go - but he had already gone, as I heard the door closing, I could also hear my heart breaking. My pulse was racing, my head was splitting with a headache, and I didn't know what to do next, I was totally overcome with the anguish and the pain, how does one even begin to start the process of healing a broken heart, and what do i do, or where can I go for realationship advice.

For 2 weeks I cried constantly, every time someone called on the phone I couldn't talk without bursting into tears, and I could not control myself. I resorted to the whiskey bottle, every day, and I tried to console myself that he would be back, this is a mistake, it is not real. Again when you are faced with this situation, it is quite normal to be irrational.

I was sitting down one day at my computer, and I thought I would search around for some advice on relationships, and maybe even separation, and I found a bunch of websites with related documents about divorce, separation, relationship advice, how to change things, how to get over a broken heart and even some about how to get your ex back.

I must have bought every book I found, and some of them twice, I was so totally confused and upset.

A few weeks later on of my best friends came around to see if I was ok, she knew how I was feeling, after all she had been through this also, with her husband of 15 years, when he said he was leaving her, and that breakup was very nasty indeed, but she had managed to get him back within a couple of weeks, and then it occurred to me, how did she do that, maybe I could do that.

When I ask her quite bluntly, she was a little taken aback at first, then although I could see that she was a little uncomfortable, she confided that she had found someone on the internet that helped her, taught her the steps to take to begin the process to get your ex back. She told me that she had followed the book and within 2 weeks they were dating again, within a month, he was back at home.

And so, I bought this eBook, and in spite of all the rubbish you will find on the internet, this one works. It is not rocket science, but it is a plain ordinary step by step guide, that helps you to come to terms with the situation, and begin planning for what you really want. To get your ex back, and forget about this breakup, after all, it just doesn't make any sense after all this time.

Do you think this would help you? This eBook had such a positive impact on my life, and helped me when I was healing a broken heart, that I have now taken it upon myself to write about it, and also to promote it.