So you and your boyfriend split up.. I am very sorry for you!

When you have decided that you actually want him back, it is important that you find your inner strength and focus on yourself. That's the way to get back your self esteem! Very important if you want to get your ex boyfriend back.

Your best assets are your most individual attributes. The stuff that makes you you. Anything that is essential to the understanding of your person, is what you want to focus on here.

Take a trip down memory lane, and remember why your ex boyfriend used to like you so much.. What turned him on? What made him laugh? Those are some core feelings that you want to re-instore for him. Go back to the source, find what went away, and correct it!

If getting back to the old ways is not a short term possibility, this method will still help you to get back a bit of your pride and confidence. More importantly: If your ex boyfriend hears about it, he will be "not amused"!

Another big point is avoiding contact with him whenever you can. (At first)

First of all - But you know this I hope? - Don't call him on his cell phone! This will only make him feel like you are stalking him.

Apart from that, he will not miss you when you keep calling him. The more you refrain from pickup up the phone, the more he gets the feeling that you have better things to do than speak to him.

To get any guy back, you need to show him clearly that he has lost something that he can not replace! Then he will feel the itch for sure..

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