With the change in times, the real meaning or value of any relationship has started loosing due to the very fact that a large number of girls are not able to make out if the guy they are interested in is actually flirting with her.
While there are some guys whose moves and intentions get clearly reflected on their face or their body language, there are various others as well who do not show any particular signs.
In all such cases, it becomes highly important for the women to beware of all such flirtatious attitudes and not get trapped in their sweet yet dangerous words.
There are a few things that clearly highlight some moves made by a guy who is not actually in love with you and is just passing his time or is flirting with you.
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The very first thing that needs proper consideration in order to make out if the guy is flirting is that of the 'eye contact'. A guy will surely look straight into your eyes only if you are of interest to him.
In case he is holding an eye contact for almost a quarter of the time when you are making the conversation and 90 percent of time if he is actually talking, it is guaranteed that the guy is genuinely in love with you or simply likes you.
The very notion that he is holding an exact eye contact with you, clearly shows that he is hinting about his true feelings and is signaling to you if you both can actually shift from only a friendship period to a more understanding and true relationship.
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The other point that can tell if a guy is only flirting with you is that of 'playful touches'. If the guy with whom you are going around is basically indulging into an extended playful touching and is time and again asking you to get into some physical stuff, it is high time to be cautious as he is doing the exact thing that most of the guys perform when they are passing time with a girl and is actually obsessed with the girl's body.
You can conveniently make out if the guy slightly touches your hand during a conversation or touching your back in emotional situations or is simply holding you tight in romantic moments.
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Another sign that can easily tell you if a guy is flirting is that of repeated insisting to go to his house or some other personal space. This can be really dangerous as guys who insist such things even after being rejected several times by the girl, are surely flirting and wants to make some lustful acts with you.
One of the biggest clues that can help you to judge the guy's flirtatious moves can be of bringing flowers or expensive gifts in situations when is not even aware of your middle or last or even the first name and calls you by some weird names like 'sweetheart' or 'honey'. This is a sure shot way that will automatically ring the bells in your head that why a guy is bringing such gifts to impress you and that too when he is not even aware of your name, nature or any other thing.
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It has been found that most of the men, who are actually flirting, plays with their hair or clothes and licks their lips. It is highly crucial to remain at bay with all such guys as they might be thinking of you in a bad way.
Last but not least, a guy is definitely flirting with you in case he is passing some raunchy and sexy comments on your body type or figure. So, consider the above mentioned tips properly in order to know if a guy is flirting with you.
How To Tell If A Guy Is Flirting With You
Whether you're meeting single guys you've met online through a Christian dating service or any other dating service or meeting men you've met offline there are a few secrets you can learn about body language that you can use to determine whether a guy is flirting with you or not. By learning these body language techniques you'll be more aware of whether the guy is flirting or is attracted to you and whether he wants to make a connection.
Lifting The Eyebrow
Try to notice when the guy first looks at you, if his eyebrows quickly rise and fall. If he does this then if you're interested you can raise your eyebrows back.
Shifting Positions And Exaggerated Movements
He may change his standing or sitting position to stand away from his group or his friends. He may make exaggerated movements or gestures to try to get your attention.
Parting The Lips
There may be a slight parting of the lips. He may part his lips ever so slightly momentarily when he first connects with your eyes.
His nostrils may open up ever so slightly and his eyebrows rise up. and with lips parted. At the same time he may smile broadly and show that he is friendly and approachable.
The Male Courtship Stance
Watch for the male or macho stance. Locking the thumbs into his belt or belt loops with his fingers pointing down, spreading his legs about the distance of the shoulders and titling his head to the side - the typical cowboy-style stance.
Touching His Face
He may touch his face by rubbing his chin, brushing his cheek with the backside of his hand or fingers or even touch his ears. This can be because he is nervous or just preening.
Stroking the front of hirt or smoothing out pants
This would be unconscious preening such as smoothing out a shirt sleeve, shirt pocket or tie. (Girls lick their lips when they are preening.)
Touching His Hair
Watch for any touching of his hair. He may run his hands through his hair or smooth it out unconsciously which again could be called preening.
Watch for the eyebrows arching up while he is talking to you. He may look a little bit surprised and raise his eyebrows which shows he is definitely interested in you. If the guy has a smooth relaxed brow and relaxed eyes, he is not interested in you.
Adjusts His Socks
If he pulls his socks up while you are near him it is a sure sign that he's interested in you and wants to look his utmost best. Another sign of preening.
With these body language secrets and tips you can easily determine whether the guy you met through an online free Christian dating service, agency, Internet site or singles network offline or at any dating service, singles club or singles event, or even speed dating function, is interested in you. If you'll take some time and study single men's behavior and look for these free clues you'll be able to find the best relationship for you.
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