Wedding Speeches Speeches are given after a meal and before cutting the cake.Speeches are given by the best man, bridegroom, and the giver away of the bride. First speech / Giver away of the bride. This is his opputurnatly to talk about the bride, praise her, and tell stories of her childhood. They would welcome the groom to the family, welcome the guests to the wedding, and purpose a toast. Second speech / the...... Similar Editorial : Wedding Planning by Blake Kritzberg. | Source : Gold Bridal Jewelry