Most people find approaching women to be the most difficult task of all. Approaching a beautiful woman and then beginning a small talk with her seems to be much harder than running naked in front of a stadium full of people! But this should not be like that! There are things you can learn that will help you successfully get through this kind of situation. This is because when walking up to women, fear and hesitation are the most important problems to be overcome. The good news is that hesitation can be fully avoided if one masters the secret power of dissociation.



So, imagine you are in this kind of situation. You will agree that no matter how hard you try, you cannot emotionally detach yourself from the moment, as the feeling of fear and hesitation is far more powerful than you. Using sheer willpower to consciously banish your fear and hesitation never works in this situation. Your mind is concentrated on running the program of fear and hesitation, no matter the willpower you will put to work.

The only successful solution is to "trick" your unconscious mind into helping you and "install" better programming of relaxed confidence.

If you manage to do this, the next time you will find yourself involved in the situation of approaching a beautiful woman, you will take a breath and allow a wave of relaxation to move through your body. Next, you will play a little game of dissociation: you will imagine stepping outside of your own body and looking at the situation from a third-person perspective. Imagine seeing yourself standing there, her, and the rest of the environment around you. This is the only way to fully feeling relaxed and objective in front of a beautiful woman. It will be just like simply watching a movie! You will then watch yourself as someone who is friendly, playful, relaxed, and curious about her and say to her.

To sum it up, if you manage to dissociate and watch the events from a third-person perspective like this, you will be surely practicing success. Your unconscious mind will be programmed with relaxed confidence and the success will only be a matter of time.

If for once it doesn't work, keep trying. There are millions of women to choose from. Just keep in mind that practice is the key to success in almost every kind of problem you may encounter in life!