Becoming a parent is probably one of the most overwhelming,exciting and expensive times of a person's life. Between baby cribs, diapers and formula, the time before and after the birth of a baby can become a constant spending spree as there seems to be no end to the amount of products a baby needs in the first year of their life. Many of us spend too much on buying items that sound essential but the reality is that the new baby is not likely to require most of the fad products on the market.



Parents can struggle after the birth of a new baby for various reasons. Nobody ever seems to be prepared enough for a child, there is always something that you remember you should have done sooner but as long as the child knows love and care, everything else has a way of working out. Mothers can feel different after their child is born, almost as if they have lost a part of themselves but even though they may lament at the sight of their excess pregnancy weight and stretch marks caused by their baby, they still know they have gained something truly special.

Preparing for a New Baby

Pregnancy is a time of preparation and one in which care is taken to fully provide for the new member of the family Baby clothing, baths, products and even a special nursery can be some of the essentials that parents to be purchase beforehand. Sometimes people feel it is unlucky to buy too much before the baby is born but it is too hard to resist the temptation of buying such adorable items. There are a wondrous amount of products designed for a new baby and it can get a bit overwhelming as it can feel like you will never have everything you need but a bit of perspective will show that as long as the bare essentials are available, there is no need for worry.

When a pregnant woman gets nearer to her due date, she may sometimes feel bored or even a bit down partly because she cannot do as many things as before and partly because she is tired of waiting for her new arrival. This is the perfect time for her family and friends to throw her a baby shower to celebrate the new member of the family and also as a way for everyone to get together in support of the mother to be.

It is a special and personal occasion that is marked by friends and family combined giving presents to the mother; showing her lots of attention and hopefully a great time.