1. Don't Have Bad Breath



This is one thing that you need to be aware before you even talk to her. You may not know that the dryer your mouth is the worse of a breath you have. If you have bad breath, chances are the girl will not want to kiss you. So before you go to a club, bar, restaurant, or somewhere to hang out with her, bring a pack of gum or mints in your back pocket or drink something to moisten your mouth and have a sexy breath ready for her.

2. Get Her Alone

You want to get her and you to be alone for a couple of reasons. It reduces less pressure from other people seeing. If others were eyeing you guys out, then you might have images of them laughing or making fun of you if you mess up. By being alone with her, not only is this kind of pressure gone, but there will be more room to create romantic tension and land the kiss on her while making the kiss all the more memorable.

3. Choosing the Right Moment

Once you are alone with her, you need to pick a moment where it is the right time to kiss her. This is crucial because you don't want to randomly kiss her and make her feel like it was unexpected. But choosing the right moment should be easy also. You could probably tell when the right moment is depending on how well you have built rapport with her which may include ways of making her laugh and playfully flirting with her. Be patient. The opportunity will come. Once you see a moment where you guys share a peak of emotion, whether it is sharing a random experience that both of you guys can relate to or sharing a laugh, it is time to land the kiss.

4. Relax and Softly Go For It

When you guys have established a moment where both of you guys know that the kiss is going to happen - usually this is right after you guys have shared something like laughing together and there is a silent kind of tension - then it is time to land a kiss. Relax, look at her and cock a slight smile. If her eyes aren't looking anywhere else but yours, then she is sending a signal to you that she is ready to be kissed. Tilt your head a little bit, lean in, and softly kiss her on the lips. This entire moment should take no more than ten seconds. If she slightly opens her mouth, then you can mingle your tongue with hers. Don't thrust it out there. Just do it enough where you can feel the tip of her tongue and play with it a little.