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Some guys would rather sit behind a computer staring at porn than actually go out and meet women.
Some reasons for that are:
1. They want to spend as little money as possible
2. It the lazy man's girlfriend
3. The most important... The Fear of Rejection
The problem is most men have pretty big ego's and they fear it getting crushed by someone they feel attracted to.
For instace if you want to play pro football, but you HATE football, do you think you're going to stick to your goal? Probably not. You'll tend to look for something more satisfying. Right?
Most guys will say they would love to have a good women in their lives, but they will always make excuses. " I hate going to bars, clubs, coffee houses, libraries". Whatever it may be.
This is because they don't know how to make meeting women Fun!
Think about it. If it feels like a chore, you probably wont stick with it.
The first thing I want you to think about is what kind of a woman it is that you want. What does she like? What is she interested in? What does she look like? The more you know about the woman you want, the easier it will be to filter out all the girls you DON'T want
The second thing I want you to think about is where you can meet the kind of woman you want. Make a list of all the places you can think of where a woman who's interested in the kind of things you want her to be, would go.
For instance, let's say you want a girl who loves baseball. Where would girls who love baseball go? Just off the top of my head, here's a list:
1. Major League Baseball Games
2. Minor League Baseball Games
3. Little League Baseball Games
4. Sports Bars On Game Day
5. Sporting Goods Stores
6. Baseball Conventions
The list could go on, but you get the idea. So if you love baseball, and you want a woman who loves baseball -- GO TO A BASEBALL GAME! And while you're there, meet the women who are there too! Use the other qualities you're looking for in a girl to pick and choose which women you want to meet.
At the very least, you're doing something you enjoy anyway, so you're going to have fun no matter what!
The most important thing here is to have fun. Make the process as enjoyable as possible. It really can be. And once you see these ideas at work. It will become fun, naturally.