All male-female relationships began at some point as a meeting between two strangers. In most societies and circumstances, it is the male who is responsible for explicitly initiating such a meeting, although the female may well be complicit to a greater or lesser extent. Here we discuss specifically the art of approaching women in evening venues such as bars and night-clubs.
Bars and night-clubs are venues where people go to meet those of the opposite sex. Although a woman may present her agenda as going out 'dancing' with her friends, she is there specifically for the potential of a meeting with a suitable male. Her agenda- and her friends- are there to protect her from the many unsuitable males who may present themselves through the course of an evening.
Given this, a woman will often pursue her subconscious agenda of meeting a male she finds attractive by making it easier for him to approach her. Usually she does this through proximity- she stands or sits close to the male she likes. Sometimes her interest will manifest itself more explicitly as an 'invitation to approach', which may take the form of a smile, prolonged eye contact, or an actual verbal introduction. The first step in the art of approaching women is for the male to develop a sensitivity for these female ploys, many of which may- understandably, for fear of rejection- be rather subtle.
Even without any invitations to approach, men should be able to quickly generate interest from scratch by observing a few social rules in the venue. The first of these is known as the "three-second rule", where a man ensures the spontaneity of his intitial contact with a group of strangers by approaching that group within three seconds of first seeing them. There may be occasions when this is impractical, but in general this is a useful rule of thumb because it gets the man outside of his head, and within a short time of entering the venue he should have engaged a decent proportion of people there. He will no longer be a stranger, but very much part of the party.
A man who is having fun, talking to a lot of people, and generating a good energy about himself, is creating what we call 'positive social proof'. People's- and especially girls'- radars pick up on this, and he may find more approach invitations coming his way, or sets he opens opening more easily. On the other hand, a man who is walking around the venue in a predatory way, not smiling, or standing with his friends checking out from a distance potential targets often generates negative social proof. People see him as uncomfortable and avoid him.
Practising working a venue is the foundation stone for any successful pick-up artist, and it should become a fun and indispensable ingredient of his social toolkit. Go out, have fun, and be positive with people, and the positive rewards will be commensurate.
Have you ever seen those guys that just seem to attract women to them wherever they go? They walk into a room and instantly "own" the place. They have charisma and charm and you even find yourself looking at them. They're mysteriously attractive and you know it - you're probably even jealous of it. Why is it though that some men have this "natural aura of attraction" while others don't. Is it possible to learn how to be attractive or is it just something they're born with.
The truth is being attractive is something we are all born with. It's the way of the world and is vital for the survival of the species. The problem is we learn things from society that mask and hide this natural attraction to the world. Some men learn the right things - and they are attractive to women, others learn all the wrong things and couldn't pick up a lady in a chinese whore house. The good news is the art of attraction can be learned - you just need to know what to work on. That's where Get Girls Easily comes in.
No longer do you need to be a fumbling mess when it comes to women. In fact if your determined enough you can have women flocking to you and APPROACHING YOU - not the other way around. In fact, this is what nature intended. In nature the male does not approach the women. Instead, he displays his masculinity and the women compete for his "love juice". Us humans however have messed things right up and reversed this role. Slowly but surely women have been made out to be something special, and wussy men on TV have brainwashed us into being "girly men". Some men experience instant anxiety at the thought of approaching a beautiful women.
Let's take a look at a classic example in nature - the peacock. The male peacock has brightly coloured feathers that serve no other purpose other than attracting females. The male simply struts his stuff and displays his masculinity while the females flock to him. Humans should be no different.
If you'd like to learn how to become this "alpha male" who's full of masculinity and attracts women like nature intended - stick around. I'll be sharing tips on how to approach women, how to seduce good looking women, and how to be more attractive. All of this can be learned, but you can't just read and study and expect to get results - you need to practice and experience as well. This can be tough for some men because your self confidence and self esteem may be extremely low. I will be helping you conquer this too. After all, if you aren't confident and have low self esteem - women will sense this and won't find you attractive. Women are very emotional creatures and they pick up on things that men just shrug off or miss altogether.
Being more attractive and being able to approach and seduce beautiful women is a skill every man can enjoy. Your life is meant to be filled with women - it is absolutely essential for the survival of our species (at least at one time it was). Stop what you're doing right now and imagine spending a night with the girl of your dreams, a night that she insisted on - not you. Sound good? I thought so. And all this is NOT to good to be true. Start living your dreams and stop being a "girly man" who's scared of women.
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