Everyone has an opinion on when a child should be toilet trained. First time parents are often bombarded with comments of "isn't he potty trained yet?" and
"My baby was potty trained at eighteen months". The conflicting advice can be confusing.
Are You Ready?
Toilet training isn't something you wake up one morning and decide to do. Before you begin, there are preparations that can make the whole thing easier. First, both parents need to decide the method that they're most comfortable with. Do you want to use a potty chair? A potty seat? What words are you comfortable teaching your child to communicate the need to use the bathroom. Next, decide if you're going to use a reward system. What will it be? A sticker chart?
What does the child get for how many stickers? Is this the best time to start? Is there something major coming up in the near future that will throw the potty training program off schedule? If you're planning a marathon cross-country trip in two weeks, this probably is not the time to try to toilet train your baby unless you're ready to make potty stops every ten minutes.
Is Baby Ready?
Unless your child is ready to begin toilet training, you're in for a long haul and a lot of resistance. Until a child's neurological development reaches the point that the signal from the bladder reaches the brain in time to act, potty training will be futile.
You'll know your child is ready to begin toilet training when he expresses curiosity about the toilet and follows you into the bathroom to see what you are doing. You should encourage this and answer his questions. He'll also start having longer periods of clean diapers as he develops more control over his bladder and bowels. Ease Into It
Toilet Training is a process, not an event. It can very well take several months for daytime toilet training to be successful and nighttime toilet training can take even longer so prepare yourself and your expectations accordingly.
If you look at this as the final step from babyhood to childhood, the time flies. Just like Potty Training, this is a process which required focused effort.
Toilet Training For Children
?Soiling accompanied by daily bowel movements that are normal in size and consistency
There is rarely an identifiable organic cause for nonretentive encopresis. A medical assessment is usually normal. A full developmental and behavioral assessment is necessary to determine if the child is ready for intervention to correct encopresis. The assessment is also necessary to identify any barriers to success of correcting encopresis, particularly disruptive behavior problems.
Successful therapy depends upon:
?The presence of soft, comfortable bowel movements
?Addressing toilet refusal behavior
Before therapy:
?Daily scheduled positive toilet sits are recommended
?Incentives to reinforce successful defecation during these sits
?A plan for management of stool withholding agreed on by parents/caretakers and the family physician
Encopresis affects boys more than girls and may go undetected unless health professionals directly inquire about toileting habits.
About 80 to 95 percent of encopresis cases involve fecal constipation and retention. It is estimated that encopresis in which fecal retention is not a primary etiologic component is under-represented in the literature. Most of the time, children with the latter condition have daily, normal size and consistency bowel movements. Terms used to describe this problem include:
?Functional encopresis
?Primary nonretentive encopresis
?Stool toileting refusal
There are four subgroups these children may be further divided into:
?Those who fail to obtain initial bowel training
?Those who exhibit toilet ?phobia?
?Those who use soiling to ?manipulate? their environment
?Those who have irritable bowel syndrome
Behavioral characteristics and toileting dynamics of children with nonrententive encopresis are well described; however, few specific treatment guidelines are available for family physicians.
Research of retentive encopresis
Over the past 20 years the treatment of retentive encopresis has progressed impressively, however, less attention has been paid to the 5 to 20 percent of cases in which constipation is not contributory, or where a child refuses the toilet-training process.
Evaluation for retentive encorpresis
In most cases, the family physician is who first identifies the problem of retentive encopresis and provides an intervention. If the problem is due to the child not being mature enough for toilet training, waiting until the child matures is the sensible answer. Many times, a lack of maturity is not the cause, but it is a child who is behaviorally resistant or parents who need information on effective behavior management or toilet-training techniques.
Possible causes for retentive encorpresis
The cause for a child's resistance must be identified first. When the cause is determined, specific therapy can be started.
1.If the problem is related to a skill deficit such as opening the bathroom door, seating self on toilet or wiping then teaching and reinforcement of those skills the child lacks is preferred to passive waiting.
2.If the child is noncompliant with adult instructions, the physician may refer the family to a pediatric psychologist familiar with compliance training techniques.
In either of the two above cases, without active intervention, a strong-willed child may refuse toilet training and create unnecessary stress on the parent-child relationship, which may in turn increase the risk of abuse.
If you have a toddler who exhibits any of the characteristics of retentive encorpresis consult with your toddler's pediatrician for an appropriate evaluation and treatment plan.
Source: American Academy of Family Physicians
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