How to make him fall in love with you? You had better not start from here, or else you could bump into the pitfalls mentioned above. You could be going too fast that there never was a chance of his ever seeing you for who you really are, and then you would miss the chance of actually being a couple altogether. You sure appreciate him, but he has yet to do that of you. So don't start on a wrong footing. Better be slow but sure.
You could do it this way:
1. Find out his interests and hang-outs
Now that you are reading how to make him fall in love, you want to make him fall in love with you, not force him to fall in love with you, so apply good common sense. And what can be more sensible than knowing a little more about this guy first? Find out what interests him and where he regularly hangs out. It would be good if you can get specific, not generic. The former differentiates him from the rest of the pack. After all, you like him, not the whole pack, don't you?
2. Find something in common between the two of you
You already know yourself, or your interests. So once you know something about your guy, you could find out what both of you have in common. This could be the areas where you can take advantage of in terms of bonding with him, as a friend at first.
You gradually progress from friends to good friends and then to being a couple. Even if the entire process is fast, it is still a process you ought to go through, less you run into disappointment later on.
3. Send out subtle hints
When you are at a comfortable stage with him, it is time you send out subtle signals, if he has not yet responded the way you expected him to. You could show that you care in situations that warrant it. If you look for opportunities, you are sure to find them. A little here and a little there show no desperation on your part, but may be enough to let him know.
How fast the entire process takes is up to you or rather, your personality. You may want to suit him also, to a certain extent. Do you think he is fast or not? If you are both aggressive types, it could take very little time. But if you are both people who take the time, simply enjoy the ride. There only is a little distress if you are both not the same in this respect. Then again, if he is the slow one and you are the aggressive one, you may be the one holding the cards!
Find out as specifically you can about this guy so that you will know what you both have in common. Then allow your friendship to progress smoothly, whether fast or slow. In accordance with his response, send out subtle signals at appropriate times. That is how to make him fall in love with you!
