This idea comes from a "lesson" taught by all mothers to their sons about how to court women. They normally say things like: buy her gifts and take her to dinner, which in most cases is totally wrong! (I will tell you why do they teach this nonsense in the future).

Maybe it is not clear to you why giving gifts to women is almost always wrong, but let me explain this to you. Women are always trying to "interpret" what men are telling them, instead of taking the words as they come. For example: If she wants to go out and you tell her that you are tired, she will start thinking: Why is he telling me this?, maybe he doesn't like me anymore.. and thousands other things, when that man is really tired and he didn't mean anything but: "babe I would love to take you out, but I'm really tired" and this happens because women brains are very different.

So, buy her a gift and she will start thinking why you have bought something to her. She will likely think that you are trying to bribe her to be with you, which women see as a form of manipulation. Maybe she will think that you aren't confident enough in yourself and need some money to help you, which is very bad because although women like money very much, it is because they love strong stability and not because greediness.

These different ways of thinking and not understanding how each other is thinking is the main reason of most fights and divorces, so by very careful to understand women brains.

Although most gifts will raise suspect, cheap but nice gifts will not raise red flags. It is obvious that you will not try to buy her out with a $5 or $10 gift. The perfect gift is one that brings to her the most feelings regarding what you lived with her making your Christmas gift a powerful tools to gain her love again.

Always look to increase your knowledge about women because the more you know, the better you will be at dealing with them without conflicts and this is exactly what you want to dramatically increase your chances to get her love back.

Do you knew that sometimes women will start a fight only to test your reaction? Fail this kind of tests and you will start losing her very slowly, without noticing, but that is stuff for a whole new article.