Well, winning back your ex need not be hopeless. The fact is a break up doesn't always imply the end of your relationship. There are probably still a lot of things you can do the win back your ex.
Perhaps, the first hurdle you will need to overcome is yourself. In other words, you will need to heal yourself emotionally first, before you even try to get in touch with your ex.
Most probably, especially if you have just broken up, the first thing you want to do is to call your ex so that you can talk to him or her over the phone.
But this is usually not a good idea because when you are not in the right emotional state, it is very easy for you to make the mistake that you shouldn't be making.
In this article, we shall not focus on what the mistakes you should avoid are. Instead, we will focus on how you can heal your emotional state.
1)Talk to someone
This may be more difficult for men as they have more tendency to keep everything to themselves. However, if there is someone you can really trust, it is always a good idea to talk to someone about your situation.
Take it as a way for you to "let out steam". You do not want to bottle everything up inside yourself.
Just by talking to one person, you can feel so much better afterwards. In fact, some people even choose to talk to their pet. While it may sound silly, who knows, it might work for you.
2)Getting some exercises
Most probably, exercise is the last thing in your mind now. You don't even want to move, let alone getting some exercises.
However, this is exactly what you should be doing. The more you don't move, the more depressed you are going to get.
Exercising will help you break out of the state of depression. Just by getting some sweat out, you will feel s o much better. Of course, you should take care and try not to injure yourself while exercising.
Of course, those two are not the only methods that you can get yourself to feel better. You might have much better way. But the point here is that you should try not to contact your ex until you are feeling much better.
When you are feeling much better emotionally, it is less likely for you to do or say the wrong things. You will also tend to make better decision. This will definitely put you in a better position to win back your ex.
