Is my man cheating? Uh-oh. This is the one question all women dread asking. But when things start becoming a little strange at home, and you and your guy aren't exactly jumping into each other's arms, perhaps the time has come to ask, “Is my man cheating?” How exactly can you tell whether your man is a philandering fool or not?
Well, there are certain signs that might suggest him to be either one. Read the rest of this article and you will find the question, “Is my man cheating?” easier to answer.
New Clothes, New Hair, New Girl?
Your man seems to have done a 360-degree turn. While he still hasn't changed any of his old and annoying habits (the same ones you two constantly argue about), he seems to have become more conscious about the way he looks. Has he bought new clothes recently? Gone to get a new hairdo?
Check out this sudden makeover. Most guys preen themselves to look good for others and they will most likely buy clothes or accessories which are of the higher end brands.
If your guy normally doesn't buy such “good stuff,” he could be doing this to impress another woman. You would know if he were doing it for you. Trust your instinct to answer the question “Is my man cheating?”
Do A Bit Of Detective Work
You don't have to go so far as to check his emails or text messages. Not when you can check his pants or coat pockets first.
Sometimes, guys leave suspicious phone numbers and receipts in them. It's not like you guys spent an evening at Hotel X and yet there's a receipt for a two night stay in the back pocket of his favorite jeans. This is one of the easiest and surprisingly fruitful ways to conclude your “Is my man cheating” drama.
Besides, you can always tell him you found the evidence by accident if he ever decides to turn the tables on you. The last thing you want is to be branded as an over possessive girl.
From Dr. Jekyll to Mr. Hyde
If your boyfriend suddenly shows a change of temperament, this could be a sign that he is guilty about something. He could become more impatient and short tempered, taking most of his anger out on you. Whether he's just having issues at work or the guilt of cheating you is getting to him, you have a right to know.
Another change in attitude you might want to observe is how often your man takes a rain check where you're concerned. How many dates has he cancelled? Are you spending less time with each other? Think about it.
“Is my man cheating?” Well, after making a checklist of all these possible leads, you should have more or less an answer. However, if you still find yourself unsure as to what your man is really doing, simply confirm everything by asking him in an honest and sincere manner.
