It is the very difficult part of anyone's life when the reason of being left or rejected by their lover or beloved continues to remain unsolved. I think if the reason is known then the population of broken hearts would be overtaken with joyful hearts. It is really mournful for both the men and the women when doldrums comes unexpectedly in their love life and turns their whole world topsy-turvy. It would be wrong to say that the reason for such mishap is not known but people involved in it completely use skepticism to answer but some cases are rather complicated and the root cause remains unsolved.

Let us find out what is the reason that leads to such mishap and how could it be solved especially if the case is with the men. There are remedies for all circumstances except death provided you rationalize it in a proper way. There are many different reasons for such heart break. Extramarital affair, your unpredictable behaviors, lack of time for your beloved or your wife, over expectations and sometimes your hurting words are cited to the reasons for such bond breakage.

Relationship continues as long as the thread of trust is strong. If you really want to keep her in love with you then stop blaming her for every small wrong doing when you know that you are responsible for it. Get out of such wrong habits and get responsible for what you do. And if you are clueless and you really don't know why such emotional tide is prevailing in your life then it is advisable to develop your emotional intelligence which will minimize the possibility if heart breaking. Awareness is the most important thing you need to be developed that will bring everything under your control and makes your life devoid of any confusion. It will help you to make decision with your brain and not with your heart which is considered to be healthy. Always remember that in order to relate the woman you love, and to keep the relationship alive, you have to know about this ?confusion.?

Most men are so good at dating, it must be inborn but the problem arises when it is aimed toward the initial conquest of getting ?her in bed?, and then they think it can be abandoned but this not the way and originally dating does not support such process initially but it begins with paying attention to her you call, you email, you send cards and flowers, express your emotions verbally, looking deep into her eyes and everything that is enough to say that you love her. If you apply this logic and generate the behavior you are a sure winner.