I've just moved from Toronto to Vancouver and I guess it will take a while for me to settle down. Actually, I moved out here to stay with my girlfriend, but i broke up with her when I found out she had been cheating on me for about six months. Now, I'm single again and living alone in this new city. I've really no idea what to do now, and I have cut all my ties back in Ontario.
I've got a job that pays me well out here, but life is not all about money. I mean, remaining a single sucks and it sucks more when you are a single in a city where you hardly know anyone else. If I was in Toronto, I'd be hanging out with my friends at bar or club and meeting beautiful girls; but here I'm all by myself. I just get a feeling I need be proactive and find a way to get out of this loneliness. Maybe, I can find some places out here where I can meet the other singles. My guess is that I should find some good bars or clubs, but it's kind of awkward to hang out there all alone.
I guess I can also try out these online dating sites that are meant for single, but I don't know how effective they can be cuz I'm one of those who have little idea on how to use the Internet. I will see what these sites have to offer single guys like me. This way I can save myself from having to go to bars where I can be perceived as a creepy pedo praying on 19 years old. If that doesn't work, maybe, I should go and explore the city and its surrounding towns as well. This is a beautiful place out here with lots of mountains, trees and pretty nice breeze as well. Maybe, I shouldn't rush or make any desperate move to remove this single tag off my life. But, I need someone single to talk to and share my feelings with. Well, as of now, I don't think I'm quite ready yet to get back into a relationship so quickly yet. I want things to happen gradually anyways.