Last night I stopped by Best Buy and wound up picking up the DVD, “War of the Worlds” (the original 50's movie, not the recent Spielberg one which I like very much). I'd never seen it before, and I wanted to compare it to the latest one.

What struck me most about that movie were how the men were portrayed—strong, decisive, confident, and most of all comfortable with authority… a stark contrast to how men are portrayed today.

If you want to see a great example of how to be an attractive man, pick up any movie from this era (along with any Sean Connery James Bond movies). Watch one, then watch a contemporary movie or TV show, and you will be ASTOUNDED at the difference.

I knew it was bad, but until I watched War of the Worlds (it's been awhile since I watched a movie from that era) I didn't know how bad it really was.

There is good news, however—the characteristics that created attraction back then, still work today… in fact, they work even better. Why? Because they are so rare—today's women rarely get to experience them because the world is full of whiney babies and wusses… the “real man” is a rarity.

So, if you want a primer on how to be a man who naturally attracts women, turn to the past, pick up some movies from that era and take on the characteristics of the men… you'll be astounded at the immediate results you get from women. It's like throwing food to a starving crowd.

What To Say To Women For A Date

I used to be a total wreck when it came to talking to women. It's true—before I became the “King,” I was a total dunce around women, making every mistake in the book before I discovered what works.

That's good news for you guys, because you get to stand on my shoulders and learn from all the mistakes I made. That way, instead of spending years learning by trial and error, you can put to use in 15 minutes what it took me years to discover.

Now I used to be weak in a lot of areas with women, but the one I used to be weakest in was initiating conversation. Obviously this is a crucial link in that attraction chain, and if you can't start—and continue—a conversation that leads to attraction, you won't attract women.

Here's what most guys do, and what I used to be guilty of myself. They see an attractive woman, and start thinking to themselves, “Wow, she looks good, but I don't know what to say. What if I say something silly, and she rejects me, or laughs at me, or humiliates me?”

Here's an even bigger mistake most guys make—they think the solution to this is to have some kind of pre-planned line, opener or comment that will magically create attraction and interest. The problem is, they carry the same mindset and self talk with them, and the pre-planned comment falls right on its face, not because of the words spoken, but because of the mindset behind the words.

Keep in mind women pick up, and make decisions based on, men's emotional states. If she senses doubt, desperation, or an ulterior motive, she won't give you the time of day.

If however, she senses strength, confidence and authority, she is literally forced by biology to respond with attraction even if you just said the stupidest thing in the world.

So what does a MAN say to a woman to create attraction? Anything he pleases. I never think about what I'm going to say to a woman. If I see one I think might have a bit of potential, I'll say whatever the heck I please. I may make a comment about what's happening around us, I may say something about what she's wearing, or I may just say, “What's your name?” in an authoritative tone, with a hint of naughtiness.

I have no ulterior motive when I do this. I just talk to women, show a little authority, confidence, and naughtiness, and if I like her responses I allow her to spend time with me. That's my attitude, and it transcends any words that come out of my mouth.

So, what does a man say to a woman when he first meets her? Whatever the heck he wants to.