Well, if you are really serious about getting your ex girlfriend back, and believe that getting back together is the best thing for both of you, then you shouldn't give up so easily. The fact is there are probably many couples in this world who may be trapped in an even worse situation than you. Yet, some of them still manage to salvage their relationship.

What you must understand is that getting back with your ex girlfriend require patience on your part. Certain things should never be rush. We all know that it takes around 10 months for a child to be born. Rushing the process would be destructive.

This is also the same for your relationship. If you try too many things too fast, they will only backfire on you and make your situation worse.

Perhaps I will just give you one example to illustrate.

You keep on calling her over and over again. You keep on sending her text messages again and again. So, what is going to happen here? Instead of getting your ex girlfriend back, you will only push her further and further away.

A better way to do it is this. Call her once and see if she answers your call. If not, wait a few more days before you call her again. This will make it more likely for her to call you back. The important point here is that you do not want her to think that you are desperate.

Once she has this perception, you will instantly lose your attractiveness and make it much harder for you to get your ex girlfriend back.

I hope you learn something from the example mentioned above. This does not only apply to phone call and text messages. The point I am trying to bring across to you is that you must not do anything that shows signs of panic. You must act as though you are calm and cool and that it is alright even if your girlfriend does not want to get back to you.

The more calm and cool you are, the higher the probability of getting your ex girlfriend back.