You love him a lot but does he love you as much or does he even like you? These are the thoughts that go through the mind of many women who have a new crush with someone they adore. You have had several dates with him and he does seem to show a feeling of liking towards you but that is by no means a guarantee that he likes you.

You are in a quandary and are desperately seeking to find out if he likes you or not. Well, there are many ways of finding out if he likes you or not. Just observe certain things like his mannerisms and before long you will be able to find out for sure if he does like you or not. Below are the guidelines:

1. Popcorns & ice-cream

Does he remember the things you like and makes it a point to open the door for you? If you have been to a movie does he take the pain to purchase the popcorn and ice-creams that you adore so much? These seem to be trivial things, but they go a long way in proving his liking towards you.

Try to study his feelings, judge if they are artificial or whether they seem to come from deep within his heart. Some men just try to act friendly to be in the company of a woman and they can be easily detected if the girl is smart enough.

2. Eyes don't lie

Sometimes many people, especially those who are well mannered do the things mentioned above more out of sheer courtesy than love. I am not stating that courteous men do not like girls, they do so, but only with certain types of girls. Try to scrutinize his feelings and watch out for his behaviors, especially when you are in eye contact with him.

It is very difficult for the eyes to lie and if you try a bit, you shall easily find out whether he likes you or not just by the looks of his eyes. Do they sparkle with interest when you look at him, or do they portray boredom or just curiosity?

3. Is he possessive?

Is he possessive enough with you, to the extent that he tells you what dress to wear and how to wear your hair? Only men those who love a girl will go to this extent. Look out for the gifts that he showers you with. Are they just normal gifts or do they consist of items that you really like. If it is the latter case, then he surely loves you, for he has taken the pains to know what you like and has taken the time to hunt down those items to gift you with. You should also remember one more thing.

There are some people who are very shy and even though they love you a lot they just do not have the courage to tell the same to you. These persons can easily be recognized by their fidgety behavior. In these cases it is up to you to take the initiative and make him feel comfortable in your presence.