There is nothing she doesn't know about you. She has seen your good and bad side. There is nothing new or revolutionary that you can use to convince her. Unless your ammo is not completely exhausted and you still have a last weapon to use against her. But what will you do if there is no trick left up your sleeve? After holding a lengthy interior monologue with yourself and carrying out a wide consultation still with yourself you feel you want her back in the fold. The big question is how to win her back. Is it possible to win your girl back? Do not chase after her immediately after she walks out. She is still bitter and the memoriesa re still very fresh. Let her reconcile with her inner being and with herself.

Distance creates fondness; give her plenty of time from the moment she walked out of the relationship. Make no mistake of communicating with her. Do not call her whatsoever. Even when you visit your favorite watering point with the boys for a drink, leave your phone at home. Frothy drinks make you a dumb man; you cannot win your girl back in that state. You will find yourself calling her. This is a calculated move to let that flare of anger die down. To let your heads sober up and look at the issue from more focused perspectives. Work up her anxiety by disappearing into thin air. Avoid social places that both of you used to frequent. Anxiety will start building up in her. She will hide it but when you eventually break the ice and communicate with her, she will be so relieved, more accommodating and willing to listen.

It would be a noble idea to have a face to face chat with her instead of over the phone. This way you are able to pay close attention to her body language and facial expressions. It would also be wise to meet in a neutral ground. Inviting or insisting on meeting at your residence might be interpreted differently. She might read an ill motive in it and immediately put her on the defense, remember you goal is to win your girl back. That is not what you want. Arrange it to be like a coffee date in a good and quiet restaurant where you can talk. A place that will put her at ease. Introduce neutral topics to this conversation. You know what your girl likes.

I say it once again; pay close attention to what she says and more to her body language, her tone of voice, her eyes, anything that might give her away. If the signals you get in this mission of trying to win your girl back are promising and positive, you can either broach the subject or agree on another date. Be humble and accept your mistakes right there before her. It will melt her heart and remove any form of remaining resistance. It is important not to beg or stoop too low because she will read insecurity in it.