When it comes to hitting on a woman, open ended questions work wonders as conversation starters. You can attempt to start a coversation and make yourself look boring with your boring interrogation that has a yes or no answer, or you can get the woman interested in you. Creating interesting conversation is a lot harder than it looks if you're out of practice. And it can be more of a challenge if you're not used to talking to women.

It's a clich? to ask the question, "Do you come here often?" If on the other hand, you really want to get this woman riveted in you right from the beginning these are the kinds of questions you should be avoiding. Any question that can only have a yes or no answer will almost certainly create a silence. That silence will grow into something that be doomed to be broken with another uncommunicative question.

With a inquiry as atrocious as that one you'll be extremely lucky if she even bothers answering. You might even get a sneer as she turns her back on you.

The perfect beginning to a conversation is an open ended question, it's a question that creates more opportunities from its answer. Instead of beginning your question with a do, start your question with where, what or how. This forces your future date to answer the question with a proper answer instead of just yes or no. This can then create another question if the answer offers you that opportunity.

Rather than the do you come here often line, you can use something else.

If you can see the woman isn't having as much fun as she should be, you can ask, ?how often do you come to this dump?? If she really is bored, not only have you asked an open ended question but you've shown you're paying attention, and know exactly what's going through her mind. This type of question also puts a bit of humor into the conversation right away.

If you start getting on with her you can propose a better place for a future date.

If you begin conversations with women more often you will learn naturally what kind of open ended questions work for you, and what questions don't. If you get your questions in your head before you begin speaking you can have the next questions ready for the different answers you receive.

Speaking to a woman can take some practice if you're not used to doing it on a regular basis. It can be a challenge sometimes especially if you're thinking about the outcome on your mind before you begin talking.

The more experience you get the better your conversation will be, and the questions will sound a lot more natural. This stops them looking like you're struggling for questions just to create a conversation.

A lot of women will get hit on by men all the time, especially if they're attractive. Learn to read what the woman needs in the conversation. Do something different to what 90% of men do when they just attempt to impress her. Show her you're genuinely interested, and talk about the things she likes to chat about. This is a quality you'll understand more as you gain experience, but the more you go out of your way to understand these things the more success you'll have.