What is instant love? It is one of the most difficult question for mankind. Centuries have passed, relationships have bloomed and so has love. But no one can give the proper definition of instant love. To some, Love is friendship set on fire, for others, instant love is luck. No matter how you define it or feel it, love is the eternal truth in the history of mankind. The meaning of love will change with each different relationship and depends more on its concept of depth, versatility, and complexity. But at times the very existence of love is questioned. Some say it is false and meaningless.

Not everyone believes in love at first sight, but it does happen. How can you deny that feeling of looking at someone and feeling like you got sucker punched; in a good way of course. Immediate thoughts of your future with the person and what your kids will look like are common with love, not lust. Lust at first sight is a purely physical reaction. Thoughts of spending your future with this person are not there. What you are feeling is so strong that all you want is to spend time with that person however short or long that time may be. You don't feel anything when that person leaves since there was no love to begin with.

Some psychiatrists believe that love at first sight is dependent on what you are feeling at the time your eyes meet the other persons. Psychiatrists also claim that men fall in love at first sight more frequently than women do. They are also believers in that people who fall in love at first sight do so because, subconsciously or not they are ready to do so. At the end of the date, how can you tell if it's going to be more than that?

When people fall in love, they are often nervous and anxious since they have not experienced love before. Especially if they are feelings never before experienced. Don't push the feelings aside and don't try to deny them because strong feelings such as love are not easy to hide away from. Who knows, the person you are with, might be having similar thoughts and feelings you are.

People who are looking for love are trying to find that one person who will complement them and live with happily always. So, when you feel as if it has happened to you, pursue it, don't negate it. To love the right person is a great feeling.