Most women go shopping as a hobby but men do not like it and have other priorities. Although for women shopping is a nice and relaxing activity, for men it is a difficult task. It's better if you go shopping alone, to buy what you like but there can be a scandal afterwards for the money spent and for dislike of the items bought. So, let's see how we can make shopping fun.
1. Make a list together
Take a sheet of paper and a pen and write. You want a bag and shoes, he wants a shirt. This is good, you know where the bag that you want is; you go right there and look for shoes together (maybe you find a nice pair in the same shop). Then you go for the shirt.
2. What can you do if he complains all the time?
Let's say that your lover does not refuse going shopping but always complains about the things you like. He dislikes every item that you like and criticizes your taste.
Try to change tactics. Be diplomatic; explain you have different tastes when it comes to clothes. You have a specific personality and you need clothes to match this.
Tell him, that you are ready to make compromises for your relationship but you cannot change your personality. You are equal partners so it is not Ok that he tells you what clothes to wear. There is a solution for everything - you just need to know how to solve it.