Know this right now! All your fears about rejection are irrational. You look at a beautiful women across the room and think: What if she has a boyfriend near by who is going to want to kick my ass, what if she yells and makes a big scene in front of everyone, what if she tells every other girl in town what a looser I was for trying to talk to he? These are ridiculous scenarios many have flash through their mind before approaching a women. Now ask yourself if you know anyone who has ever had this happen to them (who wasn't being insulting or crude). Talk to the guys who have overcome this fear of approaching and they will tell you, after hundreds of approaches these embarrassing scenarios have NEVER happened to them.

The crazy thing is that we have some how come to think that every woman on the planet is a last woman on earth. Women are not scares! In fact there are more than 150 million women in the United States alone! Who cares about not getting one number or even getting blown off by one girl or 10 or 100 or 1000 for that matter!

This leads us to an important principle: there is no such thing as rejection there is only feedback! Learning the game is intuitive, you have to put away result driven thinking and focus on the process. This is how the game is learned rapidly! If a woman doesn't respond to something, learn from it and take that knowledge into the next interaction. It is called the game for a reason. Women think of it as a game and so should you. Its fun, light hearted, so who cares about outcome as long as you're learning and enjoying yourself.

Go into social interaction with no intentions. Just have fun and meet people. Before talking to anyone tell yourself, "I do not need approval from anyone. I am just here to have a good time and socialize, she may be lucky enough for me to take an interest in her."

All that said, When you start interacting with women you are interested in, having the knowledge to attract and connect with them is an art form, make no mistake about it. As you learn about the game you will realize the things you have unwittingly done right in the past that allowed you to get the girl. You will also learn all the mistakes you have been making that caused you to lose the girl more often than not. Now that you can put your irrational fears away and change from a result driven line of thinking to a process learning way of thinking, go out and have yourself more fun that you ever thought possible.