1. Make sure you don't have bad breath. You should brush your teeth several times a day and floss daily. If you can't brush after eating then use a breath mint or even better use a breath strip because the strips work better than mints. Gum isn't a good choice because you have to worry about spitting it out before you can start the kiss. Or if you are close to the person you could try to share the gum during the kiss!

2. Keep your lips soft and supple. The easiest way to do this is to use chap-stick often so they don't get dry. You don't want a chap-stick that is too flavorful or smells to strong though because that could be a turn off.

3. Make sure your skin is in good condition. In order to avoid being greasy and shiny you should use lotions that contain Shea butter. With Shea butter you won't have greasy skin after applying the lotion.

4. Look into your partner's eyes. Eye contact makes people feel closer and more intimate. If you wear glasses it is good to remove them before you go in for the kiss so they aren't interfering with the kiss. Or, even better, switch over to contacts so you don't have that problem anymore. Take them off before not during the kiss.

5. Wear things you are comfortable in and it will reflect in your behavior and actions. You don't want to be in tight, uncomfortable clothing because that can be distracting. Also, make your partner comfortable by shaving so you don't irritate her skin during the kiss.

6. If you make a point of looking directly at your partner's lips they will think about kissing you automatically. This is a good subtle thing to do when you are hanging out together. If they look at your lips in return then chances are they want to kiss you too.

7. You don't want to have a mouthful of saliva when you kiss someone so make sure to swallow right before you go in for the kiss. During the kiss the movement of your tongue during French kissing and the slight sucking during regular kissing will cause more saliva to be produced. You want a moist mouth but not one full of saliva.

8. Make sure stay calm - smiling can help with this. When you smile you relax instantly. You are not the only one who is feeling the nerves most likely. Even experienced kissers get nervous when kissing someone new for the first time.

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Things to Remember:

* Guys, women show their interest in kissing you by leaning into you and looking you directly in the eyes. If you can kiss them when they do this, go for it. If not, remember the moment and kiss her later.

* An unexpected kiss can go either way. If you and your partner are close enough it can be great but if not it can be very uncomfortable.

* The two things you should not do during a kiss are pucker your lips up or lick your lips. Neither will lead to a good kiss!

* Girls, remember that men are always interested in a kiss so if you are interested as well, let them know and they will most likely respond in a positive way.

* Men like it when girls wear a pale lipstick or a lip gloss that shows off their lips. It makes a girl look kissable.

* Don't hesitate to keep the kiss going for awhile. Once you stop, stay where you are and go in for another kiss.

* Often during kissing someone will run their fingers through the other person's hair. If you have a ton of hairspray or gel in your hair that is going to be a turn-off.

* Don't feel pressured to do more than kiss if that is all you are comfortable with at the moment.