This is the unfortunate reality most women are facing. Finding Mr. Right for most is listing down the so many traits and assets most women wanted to see in their dream guy. But what most women too are not aware of, in reality, their own Mr. Right also has a list of assets of their dream girl. Most guys want their future mate to be younger, more energetic, and someone who is in perfect shape.

This is the exact problem most women in search for Mr. Right commit. They are not aware of the preferences of their dream guy, which is mostly about physical preference. Women are just there waiting and observing for the right man to come to them.

Most women who kept a list of traits for their own Mr. Right are women who just sit down and wait for the right guy to come to them. In reality, if you just wait and see, you have less chance in finding Mr. Right. In addition, some women push away any guy who comes by believing that they may intrude in their wait for their dream guy.

As selfish and unfair as this sound, most women are like these. They are not there for the “greet and meet” game. They are not up for the dating game. It never comes to their minds that the guy who approaches them is “the guy” for them. Most of them are busy creating and checking their list and pushing away those who meets them.

Remember ladies that you also have to act on this search game. You have to open your minds to every possible “dream guy” who comes along the way. Checklists are there as your guide, but you also have to note that no one is perfect. You have to make adjustments and accept imperfections. Your list is not really something you can look out for as time passes by.

Every guy who approaches you looked at you as a possible dream girl. They are not there to judge ahead. They are there to try if you can both work out your imperfections. That is the purpose of dating.

Guys make an effort to try to communicate and know women better. But most women are pre-occupied by the thought that they have Mr. Right somewhere, waiting for them. Ladies, remember that life is not a fairly tale. You do not wait for your hero in shining armor to rescue and marry you. Finding the perfect guy needs effort.

If you keep on pushing your possible Mr. Right and do not really do your part, in time, you will realized that your time has gone and you dream guy has passed you by. Remember that the older you get, the less chance you will be able to find him.