Most of the men think in a similar manner about their dates. This is the reason why understanding the psychology of men id the right way to reach their heart and win over them. The women knows a lot of tricks to impress their men but this is an important fact that if you are not really aware of their expectations or demands then you are already one step behind which is not a good idea at all.
So try and find out some ways to know about common men and then gradually go for the kill which is all about winning your date. You can come across a number of women who have tried out pleasing their dates according to their methods which have not worked. And some of them has got rid of the age old taboo of pleasing the men to keep them adhered to women.
Know what they want from you
The first thing that any man will look for in his date is love and passion. Many of you must be in a notion that the men are not really bothered about being loved. But this is a wrong idea as they also crave for love just the way you do. But this is not easy to become caring and loving as well as showing it in a right manner. Try and show them how you feel about him. Now this is a general fact that no man on the earth will like to have a date who is obese or underweight. Yes, looks do matter.
Not because men are shallow by nature but they are human beings and like to flaunt a beautiful or at least decent girl hanging from their arm. Men are not really careless about faithfulness. They do care a lot for to the fact that their date is a trustworthy person. No man will like it if you being his date lie to him about anything. If you feel like telling him something which he might not like try a passive way but do not lie.
Most of the men like the women who are affectionate and feminine because they often look for a potential wife and a good homemaker for themselves. This is the reason why you should not show off that you are a daring and bold person if you are not that type.
So now you know the key elements that almost all men will look in their date who can be their future life partner. Get some changes done in your approach and see the difference. They will love the new appeal in you and choose you as the most perfect date of their life.
What Men Want From Women
As I said, I was just about to give up until one day, when I was up in the attic, or more accurately, the ex's attic, I came across some old boxes full of stuff from my younger years. Old magazines, yearbooks, various keepsakes and such. Then low and behold, I stumble across an old journal of mine that I started when I was 21 years old.
Looking back now, I wonder how I ever met any women at all. I mean I was really quite pathetic. It dawned on me at that moment that no where in my journal was I documenting how ugly I was, how skinny I was, or how broke I was, but boy was I sure coming off as a pathetic loser. A loser no woman in their right mind would ever give a moments notice to.
I got to thinking, was it my appearance or my attitude and personality that made me such a turn off. A bit of both, I'm sure. However, I quickly realized that I wasn't alone in all this. I had had many friends with the same afflictions but one guy in particular seemed to have no trouble at all getting the ladies.
So, I looked him up and gave him a call. It took some doing but I finally tracked him down in Ft. Collins, Colorado. We caught up on old times and I asked him how he was doing now, was he married, children, things like that.
He said he had no children that he was aware of and why on earth would he tie himself to the archaic ritual of marriage. I replied that I just thought that to be the natural course of things. I asked him then if he had ever considered the idea of marriage.
He stated quite emphatically that yes, he had indeed thought quite hard about it and committed a great deal of his life as a proponent against it. Seems he had become a divorce attorney and witness to the destruction caused by many a failed marriage, especially to men.
Women suffer emotionally after a divorce, but the laws protect them financially unlike the men in the equation, and I do not believe that to be fair… his argument, not mine.
He told me that he had actually written a book about dating and how to get the benefits of marriage without suffering the consequences of divorce, a very snappy title indeed!
I confessed to him that I had played the field for almost twenty years before settling down but never put two and two together about how my childhood had severely limited my abilities to manipulate women to my way of thinking. I mean I was good at it, in fact I survived financially on the very concept, but unlike him, I always thought I would eventually settle down. It turns out my insecurities about forever being alone as a teenager kept my subconscious mind starving for some documented form of life long commitment.
He understood where I was coming from and admitted that he to used women for financial gain when going through law school. It was then that he had learned about conversational hypnosis and honed his skills at convincing others to do his bidding.
It made him an incredibly successful attorney and business man. He told me that what was once used against women to get the things that he needed, now served him well on anyone regardless of their sex.
In fact, he developed a best selling course on the subject, one that I own, study and apply in my own life to rebuild what divorce has stolen from me.
Together with the lessons learned when I was dating and those learned during my brief but intense marriage, I am back in the game and doing better than I ever thought possible.
I don't chase women like I did when I had the libido of a younger man, but I have no problems getting the things I need to live a very comfortable life and do not have to worry about anyone taking them away from me again like I did when I was married.
Every man should be able to decide for himself how he wants to go about living his life. The problem is, men are not taught that they have options when they are young like women are. A girl can grow up to be a housewife or an executive and have protection in the courts on both accounts.
Men are taught to be providers and are punished if they cannot make their failed marriages work, regardless of who or what is at fault, and will be forever paying his ex in some way until they bury his cold lifeless body.
It does not have to be that way. You DO NOT HAVE TO GET MARRIED!!
You have options gentlemen and I suggest, having tried both, you choose to be single and turn the tables. For more on just how to go about doing this, please visit my website and learn how to seduce women and manipulate them to your way of thinking.
Women have been practicing these techniques for eons, now it is your turn to sit back and relax…and earn a very comfortable income doing so!
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