The Sum Total of your Debts

By: Vic Smith

In relation to your debts this is probably the most difficult thing that you will have to do. If your debts have become so out of control that you try to ignore them then this will be especially difficult. A lot of the reason why debt can be so intimidating is because we do not have a clear picture, however ugly, of the sum total of our debts. If you want to make changes and begin repaying your debts you need to know exactly what you owe.

The worst thing that you can do - and most people with serious debt do it - is to hide from the problem. Your debt problem will not go away unless you take direct affirmative action. To do this you need to feel empowered to take control before you can start back on the road to financial freedom. In order to put yourself in a position of power you need to know exactly what you are dealing with. You need to take a long hard look at your financial situation.

Don't know where to start?

This is a very common problem. It's probably taken you years to get to this point; the Debt by Stealth phenomenon has taken hold of your life. It starts small, a loan here a credit card there and then it grows into an uncontrollable beast. Not knowing where to start can be caused by the feeling of being overwhelmed by the past. The guilt associated with past mistakes and errors in judgements handicap us as we try to make amends in the present.

You need to forget about the past, we are dealing with the here and now. Let's be clear about one thing there is absolutely no value to be had by worrying about how you came to be in your current financial situation, none whatsoever. If there was value in wallowing in regret then we would all be millionaires.

Forget about the past - we can only deal with the here and now and the actions that we take in the here and now are gonna help make a brighter and richer tomorrow.

Back to the debt list. Take out a pen and paper and start writing. Simply begin writing a list of things that you think you owe money on and the amount you think that you owe. Leave no stone unturned. Be creative!

Here's an example:

Student loan -5000
Credit card -11000
Car loan -6400
Phone -200
Electricity -300
Cable TV -100
My brother Tim -4500
My Mum -320
Back tax -1300
Parking fines -250

Now for the tough part, for each item on your list find one piece of hard up-to-date information (a bill or statement) that either backs up or contradicts the figure you initially put down.

This exercise serves two purposes. The first one is to give you a reality check. Most people either grossly over estimate or grossly underestimate what they owe. There is no point in kidding yourself - where's the value in that? In the end it's you who will pay the price either financially or emotionally or both!

The second purpose is that it forces you to get organised. Once the exercise is completed you will have the latest information in relation to your debts. This can serve as a starting point for your climb out of debt. Here you have a full list, along with back up documentation as to your exact debt situation.

The ugly truth about your debt.

So you owe a fortune? So what? Are you going to let your guilt and fear paralyse you? Are you going to sit there and take a beating from your debts? The simple fact of the matter is this - you managed to get yourself into this situation but you can also manage to get yourself out of this situation. The only way out of this situation is through it.

It's going to be a very slow process. You have to be in it for the long haul. The goal of freedom from your debts is yours if you want it but you must really want it. The future can go one of two ways for you. A future filled with hope and freedom and excitement as you rise up to the challenge of your debts or a future that is dominated by the dark spectre of your debts, never managing to get out of the cycle of ever increasing debt and eventual bankruptcy. The choice is yours.

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