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I know everyone is writing about the law of attraction these days. And that there are countless books and information on the subject. I have found that none of it will work if your not in the right mind set. People can say "Think only positive thoughts". Which is true but if your mind is far far away from creating that kind of reality then you need to start small.
Here are a few techniques that I have learned that work in getting your mind ready to take that next step into created wealth and happiness in your life. Ok, so its time for you to do some work, so get out your writing book and let's get started!
Step one: Understand that you are unique and important!
"There is a place that you are to fill and no one else can fill, something you are to do that no one else can do." -Plato.
Realize that your mental environment effects and controls your physical environment. If we deny ourselves an opportunity, an object, need or desire, we become not whole, or feel as if something is missing. Which in turn puts us in a state of emotional imbalance.
Set aside some time for yourself and write out what this means to you. Asking yourself, what do I really want for myself? What is my special gift to myself and to the people I love? If I were to do one thing now to change my outlook, What would it be?
Writing things down is very powerful! Never underestimate the power of the pen and the intentions that go behind it.
Step two: Goal setting- Making smart goals for yourself.
You must believe in the goals that you set for yourself. Make your goals believable to you. If making a million dollars dose not seem real to you. Then for heavens sake don't make that a goal for yourself. At least not now. Write up to 5 goals if you can. This is the time for you to make real goals that you believe in!
Your goals must have these 5 elements in them. They must be smart, meaningful,achievable, realistic, and timed.
Step three: Visualize your ending in completing your goal.
Ask yourself this question? What is the last thing that has to happen in completing my goal? What would I feel like?
If your goal is making $1000 extra dollars this month. You could say. "I want to see $3000 on my statement instead of $2000". Or "I want to hold the cash in my hand and smell the money, put it in an envelope and go to the bank and deposit the money".
Or if your goal is "I want to design a cool T-shirt line". Your last thing could be I want to open the box of T-shirts and hear the ripping of the tape coming off the box. Open the box, pick up a shirt and put it on.
You get my drift. The point is to be as descriptive as possible. Don't leave anything out. Focus on your end result!
Step four: Certainty: How certain am I in achieving my goals?
Ok, now that you have determined what goals suite you and your needs. You are going to write down how certain are you that you will achieve them.
Next to each goal write next to them "Can" and "Will". Ok, now on a scale from 1-10. 10 being the most believable to you, rate your goals.
EXAMPLE:
Goal 1.
(Can 10) ( Will 10)
I will quit my day job and own my own online money making business by March of 2010.
Goal 2.
(Can 5) ( Will 3)
I will make a Million dollars in 6 months.
By evaluating your goals this way you can determine which ones are the best to get started on right away. You might want to save the harder ones for later or change your timeline so you can achieve your goals at a realistic pace. Like your goal for making a million dollars can be changed to "I want to make a million dollars 12 months from now. Or 24 months from now".
Step 5: Just Do it!
Don't think too much about how you are going to achieve these goals. Just do it! Go through the motions of the rhythm of your life. Living and breathing these goals. You did the work of writing out what you want. You decided that you believe in yourself enough to achieve these goals. So just go for it!
Don't tell anyone you are going to do it. Just do it. By talking about it you lose power and energy. Spend your energy doing the work.
If you live in a not so desirable part of town and would like to relocate. Go visit the nice part of town ( I live near Beverly Hills, so I go there for my inspiration) Buy a cup of coffee at a local coffee shop, bring your writing book (in case you get inspired), visualize yourself living there, meeting new friends, making contacts, dinning in the restaurants. You get it.