Always waitin' for someone   To make me happy, pick me up   I realize that someone is me   What you call life, that ain't livin'   Bless the child that's got his own   It's my season, now I stand alone   Just thought that I would let you know   Some things you just can't control      Chorus:   Should I wear my hair in a ponytail?   Should I dress myself up in chanel?   Do I measure me by what you think?   Absolutely not, absolutely not   If I go to work in a mini-skirt   Am I givin' you the right to flirt?   I won't compromise my point of view   Absolutely not, absolutely not      Told myself I won't complain   But some things have got to change   Not gon' be a victim of   All your social push and shove   Right or wrong, you judge the same   My picture never fit your frame   What you thought, you'll never know   You can't see me with your mind closed      Repeat Chorus      Now I see, life means more to me   More than fancy clothes   More than you'll ever know   All the ugly words that I heard you say   Made me stronger everyday   Now I live my life for me      Repeat Chorus 3x      Oh, ooh   Woah, oh, ooh   All my ladies say   Oh, ooh   Woah, oh, ooh   Absolutely not, absolutely not   All my ladies say   Oh, ooh   Woah, oh, ooh   All my ladies say   Absolutely not, absolutely not