Learning and experiencing new modes of thinking and interpreting this world in and around us are simply frosting on the cake. We all know about frosting - not only is it lovely to look at and yummy to taste, it adds a new dimension to the prospect of eating the cake. It adds fun!
Brian Tracy discusses continuous learning in his "Great Little Book on the Gift of Self-Confidence." Here are some of his theories:
o You are your most valuable asset. Take all the training you can get to increase your value.
o A feeling of continuous growth is a wonderful source of motivation and self- confidence.
o Invest three percent of your income back into yourself in the form of continuous learning.
o High levels of competence and mastery in your field will give you a feeling of unshakable self-confidence.
I remember in my previous career in Real Estate being at the top of my game in a particular area of sales and marketing. I continued to learn new things.
My co-workers puzzled over my investment in both time and money for the seminars I signed up for, the advanced courses I took, and the books and tape sets I continued to purchase. And why did I think I needed to hire a personal coach, for heavens sake. "You have already arrived, Ann. You couldn't achieve more in your career? Where do you want to go?" The continuous learning opened up new avenues of thinking for me, new ways of expressing my being and new ways of experiencing life. It made (and continues to make) my world so much larger! Huge experiences and huge results were not only imaginable, they were (and are still) immanently possible.
For your own continuous learning, you could expand your world this week and implement just one area for improvement? You could dust off that old set of motivational tapes and actually listen to them; you could spend some time with an espresso at your local bookstore or library; Consider looking over again that winter catalog of courses that you local Junior College is offering, or get out there and see what self-improvement books are being offered on Amazon.
See what there is to discover about you and your ever-expanding world! Most of all, you could enjoy the process and the new you that may be in the making!!
If you have this problem, you are not alone. Six out of ten men suffer with the "lose my pants syndrome." Basically, their bellies are larger than their rear ends, making it almost impossible to keep their pants up where they belong. One man describes himself as the "ice cream cone-shaped Ralph Kramden from The Honeymooners," wide in the middle, smaller in the hips, even smaller in the thighs... Hmm...Sound familiar?
Where Have All the Bottoms Gone?
As the waistline increases, the bottom appears smaller. Age and gravity also have a cruel, ravaging effect on once-plump derrieres. When the hips are smaller than the waist, there is nothing to anchor the pants, so they slowly work their way south. Men try to accommodate this by ratcheting up their belts. Some even resort to suspenders.
Men who have trouble keeping their pants up fear sitting, squatting, and moving about too freely. Their mind is always on keeping their pants up, as you see them walking around, constantly pulling and lifting, hoisting and tugging, in a vain effort to defy gravity. This is not only uncomfortable and unnerving, but gives a sloppy appearance.
Stock Men's Pants Miss the Mark
Off-the-rack men's dress pants are not designed with this build in mind. Manufacturers mistakenly miss the mark and cut for the so-called "ideal standard men's shape." Traditional men's pants are cut with a seven-inch ratio between the waist and seat. In other words, a size 36 pants would have a 36″ waist and a 43″ hip. This leaves many men who find pants that fit their waist with the "droopy drawers, parachute syndrome." Or if they find a pair of pants that fits their rear, they can't zip their fly. There has to be a better way.
The "Bottom Line" Solution
The real solution is to have pants custom made to fit and flatter your shape. Buying pants made to your waist and inseam measurements is not enough to address your fit challenges. Your pants should be designed to fit your waist, hip and thigh, as well as inseam and outseam measurements.
What Fabric Is Best?
Casual pants should be made of a good quality cotton twill, chino or poplin. Many pants today have 3% Lycra for added comfort and stretch. For dress slacks, choose high-quality wool fabrics such as gabardines or sturdy file weaves. Look for a high yarn count such as Super 100's to Super 130's so that they hold their crease, shape and wrinkle less. Wool blends are okay if they are made of quality yarns.
What Should the Style of the Pants Be?
The style should be a simple, flat front or single-pleated to eliminate bulk. The pants should not be tight, but should be a trim cut, especially in the thigh area, continuing down to the knee.
There should be a rubberized strip in the waistband for friction and to keep your shirt from pulling out of your pants. Suspender buttons should be included for braces (suspenders), if desired. Cuffs can be optional, as well as preferred pocket details.
So now you know! There is no need to struggle with dress pants that won't stay in place and just don't fit your frame. Have your pants custom designed for your build and they will look nicer on you, stay in place and feel much more comfortable.
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