Up bringing is largely responsible for affecting the life of a child either in a good or bad ways. If the parents have taken enough care in bringing up their child, most possibly the result would be favorable else it could be other way around. A good environment, educated and experienced parents certainly plant some good things into a growing child to make its future successful and bright. It could be a dream of any parent that their child achieves a brilliant success in life and honor their name but sometimes, despite taking enough care, a child misbehaves or behaves in a funny manner and gives parents a sizable cause to worry about. It has been generally observed that the child goes stubborn or difficult to listen, answering back, adopts bad habits and learn filthy language. Develops attitude and does not respond to the studies or parents, diverts his interest to other non productive activities and eventually goes defiant. Parents are too busy in their own materialistic world and are unable to spare time to care for the growing kid and child could be a victim of the circumstances or the effects of environment available around him. There are many other factors affecting the life of a child like friendship, school, region, family members or neighbors and many more to list. It is advised that parents must observe carefully about the every moment of the growing child and if possible they can even seek the consultancy from the family consultants

A developing child adopts everything whatever comes on his way. He does not have a sense of realization that what is good or bad for him. They eventually learn how to turn the situation in their favor or how to escape from agreeable conditions, creating lame excuses for nothing, blaming others for their mistakes or incapability, and most parents are not ready to accept the fact that a child has gone defiant due to their own negligence. Parents should be more considered and try to understand the behavior of the child and advise him being his friend. Beating and getting angry on children would turn them rigid and negative. They would start thinking that what worst could have happened except the beating and being angry and they would be on a point of no return if the same attitude continuous from the parents. If possible, parents should draw him to the consultant to find the suitable solution of his behavior. Discipline in life is also very important in life, manners, punctuality, courtesy; politeness, tidiness and being presentable are to be taught to the child at an early stage as that's the right age for him to grasp everything easily. At the developing stage of a child, whatever he adopts from the surrounding environment that has a greater impact on the social, academic and family life of a child and with the careful psychotherapy many problems could be solved like improvisation in communication, to reduce the negativity and gaining social dexterity, training to relax and improve the level of the frustration while increasing the flexibility and tolerance.