It takes more than flowers and phone calls to get ex girlfriend back. There are many ways to win her back. Be a little more sensitive to how she feels. You also have to be sure that getting back together with your ex is what you really want and is not just a phase you are going through. Or you just want to get back together because you don't want anyone else to have her even though you two are a bad match.

There are reasons as to why you want your ex girlfriend back. Some common reasons would be is that:

- You are still genuinely in love with her - You were dependent on them emotionally - You fear being alone but the only companionship you want is from your ex girlfriend - You feel an incredible sense of loss.

The first thing you should prepare yourself to do is to strip yourself of all your male pride and ego to get ex girlfriend back. If you still act incredibly arrogant your ex girlfriend, she won't want to get back together with you. Women appreciate sensitive men and hate it when men become chauvinistic and arrogant.

Do not be afraid to tell her how you really feel. This is a little bit difficult for most men because they are not used to baring their souls to other people. This is the part of the process where you have to show your sensitive side. Do not be swayed by the myth that men should always show a tough exterior to the world, this will not help you in winning back your ex girlfriend.

Assess your relationship. If there were issues about yourself that always ended up in arguments with your ex, see to it that you can fix them. Self-improvement is a sure way of showing her that you have matured. Improve your appearance by cleaning up yourself. Improve your living situation by cleaning up your home. When your ex girlfriend sees this, she will surely change her mind about you.

Needless to say, if you want to get ex girlfriend back into your arms, you must show that your arms are open wide. If she sees that you are hesitating, she will not come back to you. Women are usually wary after a break-up because they do not want to get hurt again. If you really want the relationship to work, you have to assure her that you are done hurting her feelings.