Are you bothered by those questions mentioned above? Perhaps you have already broken up with your boyfriend for quite some time. You have already taken at least one month to heal your own emotions. You have already taken the time to think about what you really want.

And your final decision is that you still care for him as you really want to get your ex back. Perhaps your friends around you are encouraging you to let go of this relationship and move on. However, you really believe that both of you are meant to be soul mates forever.

Well, there is something that you should understand. First, you must never try to rush things. You have to take it slowly, one step at a time. Rushing it can backfire and makes it even harder for you to get your boyfriend back. As the sayings go, "More haste, less speed."

Here is what I meant. Say you try to contact your ex boyfriend. There may be a possibility that he is trying to avoid you. Therefore, he may not answer your phone call. He will not even reply your text messages. So, what are you going to do next?

Most probably, you will be tempted to keep calling him until he answers your call.

This is exactly what you must never do. Remember? Don't rush. If he realizes that you are calling him so many times, he knows you are "desperate" and will avoid you even more.

You certainly do not want to flood his cell phone with your phone calls and all your text messages. If he becomes irritated, he may just decide to cut off all contacts with you. This is certainly not what you want.

What you have to do next is to wait for a few days later before you start calling him again. In fact, if you didn't call him too many times but only once, he may be quite curious about why you called and may even call you back.

If you have already made the mistake of calling too much, don't worry too much about it. There are still things you can do to reverse or even improve the situation. What is important now is that since you now realize that calling too often is not advisable, you will want to stop doing it immediately.