“I think my husband is seeing another woman. After claiming to work overtime every Thursday night for a month, I noticed his paycheck wasn’t any bigger. He has also been less intimate in the last two months. There were several text messages from a girl named Liz, and allot of long calls to a phone number I don’t recognize. I can’t afford to hire a private investigator to follow him around. What can I do?" -

Susan M. Fargo, ND

Well Susan, I am hoping for the best, but for your

own peace of mind you can certainly find out who has been calling him.

Try reverse phone lookup at http://publicrecords.hot100tips.com/?cellphoneregistry. Good Luck!

“This will probably seem strange but I got a phone call the other day from my husband’s ex-wife.

She claims that my husband and her are still legally married.I know him too well, and he will get defensive whether it’s true or not. Any suggestions? – Karen H. Albuquerque, NM

Karen, your husband needs some communication therapy! OK but in the meantime you can certainly do a background check and search marital