B) I used to believe in soul mates until I had a string of frustrating relationships
C) I'm not meeting anyone I like at all!
Please do not give up if you relate to any or all of the above comments. Believe me, I know, I've been there and it hurts. The good news is you can attract a soul mate. It's not too late!
Would you like to know about the different type of soul mate relationships that exist? Why they exist? How to create the best relationships for yourself?
Remember you have FREE WILL.
I promise I will share more. For now, here are 3 tips to ensure you call in the right mate and that you make you're present relationships the best they can be.
1) Treat Yourself with Love
Some people think this means they will become self absorbed and selfish. Then they feel guilty and self criticism kicks in. Oh the voice of that inner critic is so very quiet. Deadly subtle at times, they don't even notice it. Can you relate?
When was the last time you took really good care of yourself?
My recommendations:
a) Book a lovely spa treatment
b) Arrange a hike with a friend in the fresh air
c) Have some quality time with your best friend (turn your cell phone off and be fully present)
Why do any of the above suggestions?
Because they get you in touch with your soul. When you're connected to your soul desires this leads to;
2) Listen to Your Soul and You'll Meet Your Ideal Mate
You have to know what you want. If you're not clear about who you wish to spend your days with, you're not going to get what you want. Get quiet and listen inside.
When you love yourself, take good care of yourself, you develop a sense of inner peace. This allows you to be specific about how you wish to spend your time and who you want to hang out with.
3) You Have to Believe Your Soul Mate Exists
You've done steps 1 and 2 and hopefully your soul is sensing the potential of a special soul mate. This is when the self sabotage is likely to kick in.
"I'll never meet someone tall, dark and handsome. If I do, there's got to be a snag. He'll leave me, be unfaithful. I'll get bored".
The little self-sabotaging voice goes on and on until it wears down your positive expectations. What's the outcome? You don't meet anyone or you end up disappointed.
Be optimistic. Even if it feels weird. Look in the mirror and appreciate your beauty. SMILE : )
