Has she become distant lately? Does she pick fights and seem angry all the time but claim nothing is wrong? Does she disappear without explanations or make up excuses for her whereabouts that seem suspicious? Is she unable to explain why she spends so much time online or seem to try to hide her tracks on the computer or seem to panic if you enter the room while she's online?

If this is happening with your wife or girlfriend, the reality is that she might be cheating on you. She could be having an affair or an Internet based relationship that could result in becoming a real life affair. Whether a relationship is physical or not, it can still be construed as cheating. If you feel like there's something just not right and suspect that her computer habits might tell you the truth about the change in your relationship, you can obtain this information quite easily to either put your mind at ease or give you the tools and evidence to confront the situation.

Programs can track her habits and report them to you so you find out the truth. This software package can discreetly run in the background of the computer without her knowledge and e-mail you reports of her online activities. You can obtain this information from the same computer or have these reports e-mailed to any email address of your choosing at any point in time.

You can obtain information such as passwords and personal identification numbers. You can also receive transcripts of instant messaging conversations with everyone on her list. You can get screenshots of the computer as frequently as you wish. The software can send you copies of online photographs, screen snaps such as web cam shots or online web pages. You can receive any document, every keystroke or any other piece of identification from that computer that you feel you need to see in order to find out the truth.

It's important for honesty to exist in a relationship and if there's something going on that she's being dishonest with you about, you have a right to do what you can to find out what it is. If there's nothing to find on the computer, you can easily remove the software and forget about it. If there is a secret hiding there, you can find it. Either way, it's important to know the truth to put your mind at ease.