If you scoff and consider the rules "stodgy", on the other hand, you'll be destined to play your games at golf courses that share your disdain. That is, of course, if you can find one.

Most private and public golf courses enforce etiquette rules to some degree, and nearly all have restrictions on golf apparel. Wearing proper attire is considered to be one of the most important areas of golf etiquette, and respectful players will happily oblige. The most common requirements of golf course dress codes are proper golf shoes, collared shirts and long pants (not jeans). These guidelines are followed on the links and in the clubhouse.

On the course itself, the primary rule of etiquette is to arrive promptly for your scheduled tee time. You should arrive at the course twenty to thirty minutes before your tee time, allowing ample time to park the car, purchase balls, change your clothes, pick up a cart, warm up and practice. Don't arrive five minutes early and expect to hit the driving range.

Another important rule of golf etiquette is a sign of modern times. Cell phones and pagers are not welcome on the links. Leave your phone in the car or in your locker. If you absolutely must bring the phone along in case of emergency, turn the ringer off and tuck it into your bag.

Golf etiquette is all about being mindful of other players. Have a clear understanding of how the other players in your group want to play, and keep their wishes in mind. Should the first golfer to tee off be the first person who's ready to go, or should the player with the best score on the last hole start first? You can very easily offend a stranger if you join their group and don't play by their rules, so be careful.

Always respect the other golfers' need for a quiet place to play. The game of golf requires precision and a great deal of concentration. Golfers can be unforgiving if they think you've blown their big shot. Golf etiquette requires your ability to stay quiet and keep out of the shooter's direct line of vision. It's not always easy to abide by this rule when you're having fun with you buddies, but it is the very basis of golf etiquette.

Golf isn't just a game; for many, it's a social springboard and a showcase of good breeding. If you enjoy playing a game of golf, you've got to respect the fact golf etiquette represents more than a persnickety dress code. It is culture and tradition that have been observed by generations. So put on your collared shirt and your chinos, tie up your golf shoes, and tee off with due respect.