It is only natural for us to wish to hold the special men we date firmly so that we do not risk losing him. You may go on a date with a great guy who promises to call you later. As you wait with bated breath, hours turn into days while things are quiet. You will feel a great urge to call him and inquire as to what is happening. Stop! Don't call him!

You should not let your emotions take control of you. Unless the agreement was that you suppose to give him a call, don't call him as to avoid giving him the impression that you are desperate and needy.

While some people will advice you that you should take greater initiative, the truth is that men are more at ease with pursuing. When a man notices that you are chasing him around, it will be very easy for him to bolt. So whenever you feel the urge to call him, Stop! Don't call him!

Pass the test

Although you may think that your man is not as interested in you as you would like, the opposite may be the case. Not calling you may simply be a method of testing you. Perhaps he would like to determine how possessive you are among other reactions. When you don't call him, you will actually pass the test. Let him have interest in pursuing you.

It is not only when you are developing your relationship that you should refrain from calling your guy. The same still applies even when you have already established a good relationship. Remember that habits are hard to break. When you get used to calling him, he will get used to waiting for your call as well. This is not something that he will do consciously. You should therefore take stock of yourself in order to change the pattern that things have fallen into. Stop! Don't call him!

You will therefore need to develop great discipline to be able to hold yourself back.

Get into his mind

Before you pick up the phone, you should have a good understanding of how men view the phone. A wrong use of the phone may just turn your man off. Before you ruin that great relationship, stop! Don't call him!