Are you quick tempered? Do you snap if your child is slow to learning a new task? Do you find yourself tensed and confused? Are you irritable of caring for your child all by yourself? Are you looking for instant gratification? Are you making snappy decisions when it comes to the well-being of your child? Would you like to become a more patience person? The world and all it has to offers seems to be no more than a fast-paced society driven so you will have to keep up with it’s pace.
There are some things in life that just can’t have a quick fix; and that’s patience. Patience is based on timing. One of the fruit of spirit is patience. You and I need to have patience to deal with the reality of our inquisitive minded children. The more patient we are as parents will help develop our own patience and character; and it will also help develop our children’s character. We both become works in progress learning to deal with the reality of being in a relationship that’s always seems to have a need for adjusting for one reason or another. Regardless of the reasoning; if you want to feel less stressed, and less overwhelmed by the cares of this life, practice some patience. I see it all the time when I’m out in the public whether it’s at the store, at church, or even just out in the neighborhood some parents have problems with their patience. Practicing patience can help you think things through clearly before acting on decisions that you could later regret.
By practicing patience it’s an opportunity to grow and mature in areas of your life that need the most improvement with your character. Your child resembles you. I find it quite interesting when I see my daughter basically imitating me with the way she talk, and the way she acts in general. She truly does resemble my characteristics. I’ve noticed over the years though she and I both can be impatient at times. I’m a work in progress working on my patience and therefore when my daughter sees me she learns from it. Taking time talking to your child or children is one of the best ways you will make a single-parent home transition less painful. As you continue to raise your child or children your patience will always be a need you will not be able to live without. Patience is a fruit and attribute that comes from God himself. When you find yourself on the edge of things; take time out for yourself by practicing some patience. Do what you have to do. You may need to be quiet; or you may need to count to ten etc. Being patience is a gift from God; you can have it, just ask for it.
Your child or children are an asset to you and not a liability. Look, Children are a heritage from the Lord, the fruit of your womb is a reward. Psalm 127:3. If you are struggling with your parental rights and responsibilities sign-up to receive tips on life in general and I can help you with your parenting concerns.
