Well, if you are in the type of situation described above, you have probably tried too much too soon. Unfortunately, in this kind of situation, hard work and persistence doesn't necessary equal to success. You still need to have a very good plan. Perhaps, the first step of your plan is to try to understand the principle as described below.

As we all know, men women relationship is one of the most complicated subject in the world. It often leaves a lot of men and women confused. Unlike other things in life, sometimes, the harder you try, the worse result you get.

Perhaps, by understanding this principle, it will help you understand why what you have been doing doesn't work. The principle is, "People want what they cannot have."

This principle is very true in different areas of our life. Perhaps, money is one of the best examples to illustrate this point. When you do not have enough money, your desire for money will be very high. However, once you have more than enough money, you may still love money but your desire for money is now lower. You may start to chase after something that you do not currently have.

This is also the same in your relationship. The more you try to push yourself towards your ex, he more your ex wants to run away from you, simply because you are making yourself easy to get

So, maybe you have tried too hard to get your boyfriend or girlfriend back. This approach is obviously not going to work simply because it violates the principle, "People want what they cannot have."

When you try very hard, your lover knows he/she can get you very easily. So, this will instantly makes you less attractive. If you are really serious about getting your ex back, you need to understand this principle and apply it whenever possible. It is definitely possible to get back with your ex if you apply this principle to your life. Make yourself more attractive and attract your ex back instead.