7. Alternatives Creates Calmness

By: Kim Johannesen

Have Plans

Teach yourself and others about the concept of alternatives, meaning having a plan A, a plan B and even a plan C, as early as possible, it will give yourself so much more freedom. All terrible things comes from people believing in the myth that they have no choice. If you have no choice, you are wide-open to a one-two combination to the stomach.

The Route To Your Child's Goals

If you prepare your child for life through the lenses of, always preparing two to three routs to your child's goal, which is often being left alone if your child is shy. If your child's friends turn on them, tell them they can chose to wait for other friends to come along. If your child is having trouble in school, tell them they can shift class or school. If your child's soccerteam stresses her out, tell her it is possible to change teams or sports.

Scarcity Underlies Many Problems

Oftentimes bullies blackmail others, by pointing out that there is one choice or doom. This is never the case. Bullies hate for you to know that life holds so many different opportunities for you to chose from. Teach your child about alternatives. The principle of scarcity is dangerous to, especially the shy child with the sensible nervous system.

When To Say Yes And When To Say No

Fortunately the principle of abundance is so strong a view on life, that you and your child will steer clear of many dark situations beforehand. It will teach you, when to say yes and when to say no. Again associations are what it is about, teach your child to negotiate through alternatives, already from early age, and you can throw away all the pseudobable about child psychology.

Heather Locklear and Charlie Sheen are best friends, and they are very much like eachother. They of course played opposite eachother in Spin City, and clearly knew eachother long before Heather helped Charlie get back on the tv track. Heather's problem area is at the dangerous high level 29, due to her mood being low for a long time.

If Heather decides to motivate herself into doing something about her mood, she may strugle with the script to her mind her metaprograms. After a lot of work she may come back in some carnation or other.

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