First and foremost, be sure to apologize for any mistakes that you may have made in the past with her. If your break up was the result of a grave mistake that you made, try to make up for it and prove to her that you have changed completely. Of course, you have to really believe this and actually do this for her to take you seriously. Don't pretend to change just so you can get her back. Forget the ego and make a heartfelt apology to touch her heart.

Next, go get a make-over for yourself simply because you deserve to look good. As a swinging bachelor, you ought to be able to charm and impress all the ladies out there. Sometimes in relationships, couples are kept busy and often neglect their appearances. So, a healthy diet and regular exercise is essential to keep yourself in tip-top condition. Hit the gym or shopping mall and get yourself looking sharp and smart. As word about your amazing new look gets back to your ex girlfriend, she will think again about what she has missed and value you higher.

Now, play it cool by letting your ex know that she can contact you any time she wants. Avoid harassing her but allow her to come to you instead, if the situation permits. Contact her on special occasions such as birthdays or when news of her falling ill gets to you. This is important as maintaining contact between you and your ex is important if you want to get back together, and showing her that you still care is polite and respectful.

In addition, it is crucial never appear too desperate by getting information about her from her friends or family. Do get updated about her life and current situation, but avoid pestering friends or getting family members to tell you everything about her. Remember, you want to impress those around her, not irritate them!

Then, when a good amount of time has passed, you should gradually re-establish constant contact with her. Give a call, text message or email to get her to meet you. Remember to prepare what you have to say to her and know what she wants to hear. You should always be who you are and honest about improving the relationship. Let her know how much you care for her and what you can do to make her happy. Also, avoid arguing about the break up that took place in the past, and find ways in which the both of you can learn from that situation.

Finally, use a little of your personal charm to get her to want you back. Talk about the good old days the two of you shared in the past and how much you miss them. Touch her with your sincerity and she will be bound to fall head over heels for you once again.

Summing things up, getting your girlfriend back in your arms depends on no one else but you. So, waste no more time apart and get reconnected with your girlfriend right away!