1) How to discover whether my spouse really likes me?

Ok. I'll try to be very tactful here. What do you think - if you indeed likes a guy or a girl how would you demonstrate that? How would you make it obvious for your spouse to notice that you really feel all warm and loving about him or her?

Mainly - you make your best to show your liking toward that person, don't you? You show attention in what that person tells you, maybe even look up at the person for nice things he or she does and certainly friendliness in whatever happens to that person. Your eyes sparkle when looking at the other person. You seem very eager be just two of you with the guy or girl.

Does it come to you that kind of fondness from your sweetheart? Is there some kind of interest in you? Show sympathy? Check it out.

2) How to build up the feelings in our relationship?

True fondness basically depends on really agreeing and I would say admire what you see in the other person and the things he or she says to you. So, you can do your best to look good for your partner and ALSO make your best to be more fascinating for your partner. Make notes what your partner likes in the way you look and improve just that. And, to the opposite, you better not do the things that your partner prefers not to see in you.

I am not advising about becoming obsessed on being exactly what other people think you should be, because there lays depression and hard time getting other people to like you. No, I'm talking about spending your guys' time together as smoothly and enjoyable to both of you as possible.

And I certainly advise you give compliments to things you find great about your partner. And, on the contrary, unobtrusively advise some small betterment, but very gently and not demanding. For instance: "You know, that tie would look so lovely on you, why wouldn't you put it on?"

I talk more in my free romance compatibility report to understand more about being interesting to your partner.

3) The toughest thing about keeping a romance alive is not to get angry on your spouse.

I certainly agree with that. According to the experience I gained, people can react to things, which kind of look to him like some bad things that occurred to him in the past. And those reactions can happen without him or her really being in control of it.

One good thing about it - the more rested we are and the better our mood is, the less is the chance that such reactions can happen to us. So my advice is - rest more and do your best to keep your mood in good shape. I'll give some good advice on this in my forthcoming articles.