Marriage is a beautiful relation that is celebrated by all once in a lifetime. It is that relation which is delicate as petals of roses and strong as rough wind. But with little understanding and patience we can make this relation an eternal bliss. People with their immature attitude turned it into hostile relation; fail to keep the spark of married life alive.



Life is not bed of roses always. Ups and downs are bound to come in life. But that does not mean that we should turn our backs. And in marriage it is very common, it is two individuals having different personalities meet and then clashes take place. When a person gets married, there are lots of responsibilities that one has to face. Sometimes the person is not able to keep up the expectations of his/her partner. But then that does not mean he/she doesn't love his/her partner.

Some of the problems that are generally faced by people during their marriage are:

Financial problem - Couples often have clashes on money matters. One person might always be in the vague of saving money, while the spouse might be spendthrift. Thus, expenses are always an issue.

Sexual Problem - When the sex life of couple diminishes dramatically, then there arises a need to sit down and do a meaningful conversation. In fact, reduced sexual desire is a sign indicative of serious marital problem.

In Laws Problem - Married ladies are more often coming up with the problem of In-laws. This can be somewhat attributed to generation gap also. In-laws compare their times with that of their child's and this causes frustration.

Communication Problem in Marriage - Lack of proper communication gives rise to misunderstandings, thereby causing clashes and tension.

Loss of intimacy is one of those common marriage problems that eat away foundation of a marriage turning what was once a loving and fulfilling relationship into nothing more than a shell. When there is loss of closeness in a relation there is no light. It is only through people communication that people can establish healthy relation. All problems that results in breaking relation can be solved when couple talk to each other in open manner. When they does not hide anything from each other.

We all face problems at work, with the children and with the family but work problems we handle, children issues we sort out and look how far we have to be pushed before we even consider disowning our family. Why is it then so common for marriages to split up over a few solvable problems?