A lot of these guys aren't even good with women; they are thirty or forty something single guys whose knowledge of women comes from the internet and television.
Granted, some of these guys are better than others, but even the ones that might have had some success in getting laid (or even getting married), don't really understand how women work. They might have had some success using a certain pickup line or attitude when approaching women and they assume that's what got the hall pass, but really, they have no clue.
Most women make up their mind within seconds of seeing you as to whether or not they would consider sleeping with you. This doesn't mean that you are in if her answer is yes, it means that she would consider it, and if you play your cards right you might have a chance.
It is a misconception that women are just being difficult or coy when they are picking their mate. In fact, women are just true to their physical and emotional responses when they choose who they want to be with.
Even if a woman is just looking for a bit of fun, she is still likely to choose a guy that she could see herself date. Keep this in mind when you are approaching women. You need to connect with her at least somewhat on an intellectual and emotional level as well as the physical.
Those first few seconds when women do their initial evaluation of you, they are interpreting all these signals that you re not even aware of sending out. Women are not as visual as men, they of course like men to bee good looking, but how you look to them is largely determined by how you feel about yourself. Almost every woman I've ever known has at some point thrown all her preconceived ideas of what kind of guy she's attracted to overboard because she met some guy that didn't fit her requirements at all but still somehow made her knees wobble.
Approaching women successfully starts with you. I know you've heard it all before, but it largely comes down to confidence. By confidence, I don't mean arrogance; being overly cocky can easily turn a woman off you. True confidence, the one that women love and look for is the subtle one. You don't even have to do much; it not about showing off, it's about how you feel in your own skin.
Next to good personal hygiene, and taking basic care of how you look, the best way to become good at approaching women is by working on yourself; build your confidence and learn to really like and appreciate yourself and women will too.
David Deangelo Approaching Women
Are you tired of being alone on Saturday night? I was like you once. I was lonely, unsuccessful with women, and just generally depressed with life. I decided one day to throw my entire mindset away and start anew with an improved mind-set. So I decided to go out and approach the first women I laid my eyes on. I've been doing this ever since and I have found out what works and what doesn't. Now that I am much more successful with women, I would like to share with you my top 3 tips for approaching women!
Tip #1 ? Be different!
Women get approached every single day almost non stop whenever they're out. Probably GREATER then 9 times out of 10 a guy is going to approach them with a compliment. Usually, all they end up leaving with is rejection or a fake phone number. Instead of opening with a compliment, ask them an opinionated question like for example, if you're at a mall open with something like this ?Hey, I'm here shopping for my sisters birthday present, can you help me?? Or also you could try a harmless joke like ?Nice shoes, my baby sister has a pair just like them.? Most guys won't ever touch this method for approaching women even if their life was on the line. Although it sounds strange, TRUST me, this is the single most effective way to be when approaching women.
Tip #2 ? Be Groomed!
First impressions are everything. Nothing sets off a first impression more then messy hair, an acne ridden face, or untrimmed facial hair and nails. You don't have to dress in $100 dollar designer shirts, but make sure what you do wear is nice, fitted and matching. Make sure your clothing is always wrinkle-free, stainless, color coded matching, and always keep your shoes squeaky clean. Always shave your face and always fix your hair. Keep your nails trimmed and your teeth clean. Also never forget your deodorant and don't be afraid to apply a little bit of cologne.
Tip #3 ? Be Confident!
Confidence is a beautiful thing. It can turn a selfless loser into a stud that attracts everyone around him. Confidence is the SINGLE most important thing when approaching women. If you appear confident, you will be more successful with approaching women, and life in general. A woman isn't going to give her number to a man who speaks quietly and hunches over. A woman wants a man in control and who displays this through conversation and body language. Don't be afraid of rejection, because chances are you will never see this woman again. If you just adapt the mindset that trumpets should play when you walk into the room, your life will INSTANTLY improve. Act confident, look confident, BE confident.
If you follow these tips as closely as I say, then I can guarantee you that you will INSTANTLY see an improvement on your success with women and with your life in general. I hope you enjoyed those three quick tips designed to help you increase your success with women simply and without much effort.
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