You've likely heard speech openings that start with, "Hello everyone... But, what's the effect of this speech opening? I would argue it has two effects, and both negative. First, by trying to address everyone, the speaker addresses no one. And, if members of the audience don't feel they're being addressed personally, they likely feel less of a connection with the speaker than they would otherwise.
When you address a group this way, it implies you see a featureless group, rather than a gathering of individuals. "Hello everyone..." and "Thanks everyone..." and their variations depersonalize the audience. For those of us in the audience, it seems to suggest you're speaking past us, to some unknown at the back of the venue.
The same audience response is true, to some extent, of the phrase "Ladies and gentlemen" although its long history implies formalism rather than depersonalization.
You might well object, though, that many speakers and entertainers use the speech opening phrase, "Ladies and gentlemen...". And, you'd be right. They do. Talk-show host, David Letterman, for example, often prefaces his jokes or anecdotes with the phrase. In that case, the phrase is likely not a bad habit; it's probably done intentionally. By using "Ladies and gentlemen..." he adopts a formalism that contrasts very effectively with his off-the-wall style of humor. The contrast between the two makes the jokes more enjoyable.
Similarly, some very good public speakers also use this speech opening intentionally. Once more, the idea is to sound formal, but now it's used to provide emphasis, rather than contrast. Prefacing a key point with the "Ladies and gentlemen..." orally underlines the words to come, and gives them greater emphasis than the other words.
One last note: Sometimes speakers and entertainers use the phrase unintentionally because of misguided advice or old habits. They haven't enjoyed good, detailed critiques that would expose the usage.
While I can find reasons to use "Ladies and gentlemen..." I can't find one for "Hello everyone..." or "Thanks everyone..." Both speech openings depersonalize the audience, which lessens the effectiveness of a speech or presentation.
And what, you might ask, should we do instead? Whether the setting is formal or informal, start by thinking of the audience as a collection of individual, and remind yourself that each person wants to be addressed personally. Keep in mind that old marketing acronym, WIIFM, "What's in it for me?" It's a way of reminding ourselves that every individual in an audience has his or her own wants and needs, starting with recognition of their existence.
And, that can be done quite simply. If you say simply "Hello..." rather than "Hello everyone..." makes it possible for each individual to assume that the greeting is being directed to them, and just them. The same applies to "Thank you..." and other usages.
I also find it works well if you pause after saying a simple "Hello" and then make eye contact with a number of people in the audience. You don't have to make contact with everyone, but at least a few.
Wrapping up our exploration of speech openings and audience responses, never speak to the group as if were an undifferentiated group; always address it as a collection of individuals. Bottom line: avoid both "Ladies and gentlemen..." and "Hello everyone..." (and similar speech opening variations) unless you have good and specific reasons.
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When you are going to choose a suitable internet auction among the various available ones in the internet, you must have a complete knowledge about what all steps you must take and the other do's and don'ts of the transaction. You should also know what you can sell and what you cannot sell. Every internet auction will have its own set of rules and formalities in regards to their acceptable items and practices when making use of their service. As a service buyer you must fully read and understand the formalities and rules of these providers before participating in internet auctions.
What can I sell?
You must be well aware about the items that are allowed to be sold using internet auctions as there are certain products that are not permitted to be sold. Of course, you will not be allowed to sell anything which is illegal. Illegal items mean the things that are illegal on the side of the buyer as well. So before trying to sell anything through the auction, it is necessary to ensure that it is legal. Most internet auction services will have a list of the items that are acceptable.
The following list is a list of forbidden items that cannot be sold using internet auctions.
* Fireworks
* Medication
* Illegal copies of Computer games or software
* Illegal copies of movies or CD's
* Copyright Infringed Items
* Replicas of popular merchandise
* Alcohol
* Cigarettes
* Event Tickets
* Weapons
* Prizes
* Catalogues
Attempting to sell the above mentioned items on an internet auction site will result in the immediate suspension of your account. Moreover, selling the illegal items will also lead to various investigations by the concerned authorities. So it is recommended that you avoid selling these forbidden items through the auction services.
Auctions and Their Results
There are also some other rules that you need to be aware of when selling various items using auction services. When you sell an item in the auction, you must be completely honest with the buyer, concerning the quality of the item. You must not hesitate to mention if it is a used item. Moreover, if the item has any problems, you must let the buyer know that information also.
If the item is not in perfect condition, this also needs to be included in the item information. Buyers will not be interested in buying the items from someone who is not honest. Hiding the true information will eventually result in money and time loss because of auction fee, refund, shipping expense, negative feedback, loss of money and even accounts termination.
One of the disadvantages of internet auctions is that you must be ready to sell the item in a price range that is less than what was paid for it. The reason people are interested in using internet auctions is because they are looking to buy great items for lesser price. Internet auctions are similar to real auctions in many aspects; the people will bid and they pay the amount for which is bid.
Sometimes you will receive surprisingly good items with cheap amounts and sometimes you may be disappointed. That's the risk factor of internet buying. Of course, make sure that you understand the payment system. Many people have lost money on internet auctions. Only use reputable payment systems.
Summary:
Internet auctions can be fun and give you an item at a cost well below what you'd pay normally. However, there are some traps to avoid and you need to do your homework before going online to make sure you are not tricked out of money or buying something you'd rather not have wasted money on.
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