Before you start looking for the woman that you

want, make a clear idea of the type of woman you

are after in your mind. Now you can set some

specific details, which are more important for

you, like: she has to be a good mother, a sexy

blonde or a smart brunet, the housekeeper type of

woman or a career woman... and don't forget the

age and the relation type you're after.

This will allow you to choose the right online

dating site for you (www.eBridex.com is a new one

and might work well for you). Then, you will have

to make your profile as complete and realistic

as you can. Take time to view some women profiles

that contain the specific details you have fixed

and pick one, maximum two of them. If you are

interested in more than two women, never, but

never talk online with more of them in the same

time. Women can feel if you don't give them your

complete attention.

Now cames the hard part, and the most important:

the approach part: Don't forget! In online dating

the most important thing is to GET HER TO TRUST

YOU!If you selected a site that gives you the

possibility to contact women by e-mail, your

first e-mail is the most important. Introduce

yourself and say something specific, that is

special about HER (you should read her profile

carefully for this). Tell her the location on the

web where she can find your profile, and be

direct and ask for an online talk (date) to get

to know you each other better. Don't write a long

email. If you have fixed an online date, do not

be late! By doing this you will lose her from the

very begining.

When you're approaching her online, after you

break the ice with an open question, the very

next thing you should say or do is to introduce

yourself. Just use your first name then allow

the woman you're talking to to offer you her name

(if she is using a nickname in her profile).

Pause for a moment. If she doesn't offer it, ask

her what her name is. Then, and this is very

important, use her name in the very next sentence

you are writing to her. Using her name works like

magic to make her more interested in you. Never

talk about your ex in the first dates and don't

forget the women don't want to be a shoulder for

you to cry on. Be positive and enthusiastic. Make

her laugh and feel good about spending time

talking with you.

The next thing you want to say or do is

compliment her. Call attention to some detail

about her, and flatter her in a totally positive

way. Be sure to avoid obvious compliments at all

costs. Also, always find ways to agree with her.

Never disagree with a woman when you first meet

her. One exception, which works all the time is

if she initiates a conversation about sex with

you. One time when I was talking with a women

online she started to tell me that she would like

to see me only with a towell on me and I said to

her that ?Hey.. don't you think things are moving

a little too fast in this relationship?? :). At

the first time we date she confesed me that she

only came to the date because I have impressed

her with that line. Imagine that. :)Keep in mind

that if a woman likes you or would like to know

you better, she will give you free information to

follow up on.

If she's not attracted to you, she won't give you

much of anything and it will be very difficult to

maintain a decent conversation with her.At first

time, don't talk more then one hour or one hour

and a half, then pretend that you have to go,

but don't forget to tell her that you have a

great time talking to her and never be shy about

asking her for her phone number. Be direct. You

can say something like, "I have to be going now.

But I'd love to hear your voice, sometime. Can I

call you?" Without the all important phone number,

you will never get anywhere with a woman.Do not

call her in the same day you have talk with her

online, suspans can be healty sometimes. :)

Good luck, and be smart! She will be ?on fire?

just to get to know you better.