Marriages may be made in heaven, but without proper planning a wedding cannot be truly special. Every couple wants their wedding to be an event that is memorable for not just the bride and groom, but also for the guests. If you are planning a wedding and are wondering what you can do to make your wedding special, then here are a few tips to make your wedding truly special for everyone involved and not just the bride and groom.
Just like in business, the place of your wedding makes a lot of difference. There is nothing wrong with getting married in a church or cathedral, but the truth is that people have come to expect more than just a church wedding. If you are planning a church wedding then make sure the reception is special and truly memorable. However, if you do not want to get married in a church, then the next decision is choosing a wedding destination. There is no shortage of quality locales to get married in, if you are currently in Europe, then make sure that you consider Cyprus for your wedding destination. Contrary to popular belief, a Cyprus wedding is cheaper than most European cities, and people will remember your wedding for a long time to come. The biggest advantage of planning a wedding overseas is that it takes away a major chunk of the planning, and the newly weds as well as the guests can genuinely enjoy their vacation/wedding.
After the destination is finalised, the next thing to really work on is the wedding dress. Let's face it there is very little room for creativity when it comes to the groom's tux, however the bride's wedding dress is without a doubt the centre piece of the wedding, and every single guest (including the groom) will take instant notice of the wedding dress. Remember just like the wedding budget, it's not a good idea to get carried away when you are buying a wedding dress, at the end of the day the wedding dress is probably going to be worn just once.
Equally important to the wedding's preparations is the wedding cake, the wedding cake is similar to the centrepiece of the wedding. Once the celebrations begin, the first thing everyone is looking forward to is the wedding cake. Traditionally a wedding cake is supposed to be white, this in no way means that the wedding cake has to be boring old vanilla flavour. Today there are a wide variety of flavours available when it comes to wedding cakes, and the truth is that it is eventually the couple's choice that counts. As a couple if you don't want a white cake, don't worry it is no longer uncommon for people to have a wedding cake in chocolate and other colours. Remember at the end of the day it is a celebration of a couple's union, and it pays to think out of the box. There is not such thing as a typical wedding and it is for a couple to decide if they want to follow traditions down to the last letter or not.
Wedding Planners
Wedding planners are a blessing in disguise for couples where both the bride and groom are working. Sometimes it becomes nearly impossible for a couple to take time out from their hectic schedule and plan every single detail of the wedding. For working couples, it is simpler to hire a wedding planner that can take care of all the planning. When it comes to wedding planners the biggest advantage is that all it takes is frequent supervision, and the wedding preparations are taken care of. However if a couple wants to be more involved in a wedding they can still go with a wedding planner but pay more attention to the finer details. Eventually it all comes down to how involved a couple wants to be when their wedding is being planned.
How To Plan Wedding
Not all songs are created equal. The type of wedding ceremony music that you choose will be quite different from the wedding reception music. There is also the consideration on the type of wedding you will be having - whether it is a traditional religious ceremony or a less formal occasion, such as a garden wedding or beach wedding. In this article, we are going to be looking at music choices that would fit into a more formal and religious atmosphere.
What Type Of Music Is Needed For Each Segment
In a traditional ceremony arrangement, low-key instrumental music is usually played and begins about a half hour before the ceremony begins. This is called the Prelude. Most times, if you don't have any real choices in songs, the organist will play the typical wedding selections that other bride's and groom's have used. If you wish to pick your own Prelude songs, a few of the more popular choices are:
* Canon in D by Pachelbel
* Air From Water Music by Handel
* Ave Maria by Bach
* Greensleeves by David Chamberlain
* Waltz (from Sleeping Beauty) by Tchaikovsky
* We've Only Just Begun by The Carpenters
* Tonight I Celebrate My Love (For You) by Peabo Bryson & Roberta Flack
* Breathless by Kenny G
You will then need to choose what music you would prefer for your Processional (as you walk down the aisle). Some brides will elect to have traditional instrumental music such as Canon in D, Ave Maria, and of course the tune that everyone knows: The Wedding March (Here Comes The Bride). However, more and more of today's brides are chosing tunes from popular song artists. Here is a short list of Processional songs that tend to be favorites:
* Power Of Love by Celine Dion
* What A Wonderful World by Louis Armstrong and Kenny G
* Endless Love by Lionel Ritchie and Diana Ross
* Grow Old With Me by Mary Chapin Carpenter
* Look At You Girl by Chris Ledoux
* From This Moment On by Shania Twain
* Because you Loved me by Celine Dion
* Only Time by Enya
* This I Swear by Nick Lachey
* Nadia's Theme by Barry De Vorzon and Perry Botkin, Jr.
During the ceremony itself, there will be breaks when you will need to provide solos, hymns or instrumental music, such as when you are signing the register. Some common pieces sung by soloists are:
* Wedding (There Is Love) by Stookey
* Ave Maria by Schubert
* Evergreen by Barbra Streisand
* One Hand, One Heart (West Side Story) by Bernstein and Sondheim
* Sunrise, Sunset (Fiddler on the Roof) by Harnick and Bock
* Ode to Joy by Bethoven
Finally the ceremony ends and the bride and groom turn to leave to the sounds of the Recessional. Here you will want a vibrant, joyous song or instrumental to play. You may choose from classical music or the more popular pop songs of today. A few examples are:
* Wedding March from a Midsummer Night's Dream by Mendelssohn
* Overture from The Marriage of Figaro by Mozart
* Bridal March by Hollins
* Ode to Joy by Beethoven
* Nothings Going To Stop Us Now by Jefferson Starship
* Beautiful Day by U2
* Walking On Sunshine by Katrina and the Waves
* Forever and Ever, Amen by Randy Travis
Tips For Planning Your Music Selections
Before you select any music, soloists or instrumentalists, you will need to get the answers to certain questions as follows:
1) Speak with your clergy member to find out if the religious venue you are considering provides an organist and/or choir. What other types of musicians are allowed and can he/she recommend anyone? Are other types of musicians allowed such as a harpist, flutist, guitarist, etc.? Can he/she recommend any soloists?
2) You will also need to determine if there are any restrictions on the types of songs and music played during the ceremony. In a very strict, religious church, you may be prohibited from playing any non-religious songs.
3) If the church or synagogue provides an organist or other instrumentalist, what is the fee that is charged for using them? What if you wish to use a friend or a particular organist rather than the one provided, are you allowed to substitute?
4) Determine what type of mood you want for your ceremony. Some couples want a more serious, solemn service, while other couples want a fun-filled, vibrant atmosphere. This will help you in your selection of wedding music, as well as deteriming the best soloist and musicians to hire.
5) If you have any friends or family members that are gifted musicians, you may want to consider asking them to provide the songs and music. It will provide an added personal touch to your ceremony. Be sure to thank them by presenting them with a small gift. In some cases, you may need to hire them just as you would any other professional musician, but it is usually much less expensive to do so.
6) Once you determine what music and songs you will be using, make sure all soloists and musicians have a copy of the music list along with when they are to be sung/played. If any of the songs or music are new to your performers, make sure you provide sheet music and give it to them early so they can prepare.
7) Purchase tapes and CD's of wedding music to listen to. This will help make your choices much easier.
As you can see, there are quite a few details to resolve when planning out your wedding ceremony music. The above song suggestions are the ones more traditionally chosen. However, there are alway new popular songs by song artists that can also be wonderful choices for a wedding ceremony. Keep your ears open for them. Hopefully, the above guidelines should give you a good start toward picking the perfect music that will personalize your own wedding.
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