Most men can display some kind of wit and humor when talking to a woman for a while. Very few men can spark sexual tension and chemistry with a woman they just met. This is a big problem, because it is up to us as men to build this initial chemistry and if you fail to do so you may never get another chance!



Men who have the ability to create that spark with women will have more options in their love life. The reason is that they can immediately show women that they understand how to communicate on their level. This kind of communication takes women to a place in their head that creates sexual tension, fun flirty interactions, and attraction!

If you were paying attention while reading the last paragraph you should have noticed that word flirt. You should also have noticed the word immediately. That spark must be created quickly at the very beginning of the interaction. The way you do this is through flirting. Like most men you are not sure exactly what that word means.

We all appreciate humor among friends and joke all the time. You find it easy to have some sarcastic wit with your friends and it can be just as easy to flirt with women. Sarcasm is saying something is ok when it is obviously not. This is a great way to build a connection in a fun way among friends but not attraction with women. Flirting is the often the exact opposite of sarcasm. Flirting is saying something is wrong when it is definitely not. Flirting can also take on the form of suggestive language with some kind of naughty double meaning.

Pretending something is wrong? Yes, done in a fun flirty way you can have fun verbal jousting matches with beautiful women. If a woman is outgoing or sassy tell her she seems really shy. If a woman seems to be getting looked at or hit on a lot tell her she doesn't seem to get a lot attention from men so you will talk to her for a while just give her a thrill. Is it becoming clear now?

You can take anything she does and suggest that it shows something wrong or weird about her personality. If she orders an expensive drink say, "Oh high maintenance aren't we." if she is very outgoing say, "your too wild, I learned a long time ago to avoid girls like you." These two examples should open your thinking to what I'm talking about. Did you notice in the second example I suggested that a relationship couldn't exist between us? This is another powerful tool because it shows that you are not needy but your joking so it suggests that you may be interested.

Some of this may seem strange to you but trust me now and believe me later. Just give it a shot and you will enjoy electric interactions with women.

Another fun way to flirt is suggest that she is into you, and you could take her or leave her. This is a fun role reversal approach. Tell her you're not a piece of meat and don't appreciate the way she's looking at you. If she tells you all men are pieces of meat or easy, tell her she better take you out to dinner and drinks before she gets any play. This is all funny, flirty role reversal that will make it like she is hitting on you!

As you can see from the examples above flirting is fun and lighthearted. Once you are in the correct frame of mind and practice a bit, it will come more natural and spontaneous. Remember that your intentions are fun and not actually insulting. You should start flirting immediately with a woman you just met because it is up to you to create that first spark of chemistry. So have fun and enjoy your interactions with women more every were you go!